there is no shame in being bisexual. its not a choice its a feeling, but the way you explained makes me think you just need more attention form boys so mayb if you get that you will be fine..

What exactly do you need help with?

It's not a problem if you are or are not bisexual, both are perfectly normal. There isn't really a need to label what your sexual preference is either.

no i need help in knowing am i bisexual or not. i have no problem with people being bisexual like i said b4 my friend is bi and i have more than one bi friend

i think in order for us to help you decide if you, in fact, are bisexual, we'll have to define bisexuality.

i would say that bisexuality is repeatedly having sex with men and women and not having a stronger preference for either, but having a strong preference for both.

i would also think that being bisexual would mean that you would have to be AS comfortable having sexual involvement with either sex.

sooooooo...if we used that as a definition, i'd say you're not bisexual at all because you haven't been down there munchin' out! you're just a horny girl and anything sexual is making you horny. if you get to the point that you're actively pursuing members of both sexes for actual sex THEN i'd say you were bisexual.

hope that helps. if you go by another definition, then the results may differ as well.

jasmine

Bisexuality is having strong feelings of sexual attraction for both girls and boys. It doesn't mean that you have to be exactly neutral. Many bi people have a leaning towards either girls or guys, but it is possible to be anywhere on the bisexual spectrum, from mostly "straight" to mostly gay. You don't have to sleep with people of both sexes to be bi. It is possible to be bi and have only straight or only gay relationships. It is possible to be bi and never having had sex.

Many people do develop strong feelings for someone of the same sex during their life, but that doesn't always mean they are gay or bi.
Many people choose not even to define their sexuality, because human sexuality is too complex sometimes to define.

greywolf, i agree with what you have said, however i think you may have gotten vertigo from reading my position.

you see, your definition of bisexuality is correct, but it really doesn't have anything to do with whether or not idkk is bisexual. in order for HER to understand whether or not SHE is bisexual, i just gave her a very loose definition based only on the inputs she gave us and how i envisioned her situation (i may have invisioned it correctly or incorrectly).

in that, i said that if SHE defined bisexuality in a different way(as you have done), HER results would be different from mine.

in the end, it will be up to idkk to determine whether or not she is bisexual based on her own vision of bisexuality. my only point was to answer an undefined question with a defined result based on some basic inputs provided by idkk.


jasmine

I understand that you are trying to be specific to idkk, but I found your post a bit confusing, because I know a few bisexuals that have chosen to date only people of one sex, despite being still attracted to the other as well.

I wasn't attacking your post or anything, and I'm sorry if it seemed that way. I was just pointing out that bisexuality doesn't always mean you want to have sex with people of both sexes, and that there are varying degrees of bisexuality. Its quite common for bisexuals to be more attracted to one sex than the other.

didn't seem like an attack at all. thanks for your input. sorry you found my position to be confusing. i do agree, in general, with the basis you present as it applies to people who are bisexual.

jasmine

That's ok, I misenterpreted what you meant. And you don't need to apologize, it's ok!