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Q: Possible pregnancy at a young age
asked by: dude1234 on August 13th, 2008
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Oh k. Here goes


My girlfriend gets her period usually every 4 weeks duh! Mostly on every wednesday. She has not missed a wednesday yet. However, except this wednesday. We had protected sex WITH spermicides. The condom said so =P I barely came in her. The second I felt it..about 2 seconds later I took it out. There were no holes in the condom. I made sure of that by putting water in it after I was done. Nothing came out. However its still early in the day. But I am very young.....Not even 16 yet. not even 15 =/ I know be ashamed of me. But I love my girlfriend its been almost a year that weve been together. But I dont know what to do. Does it sound like shes pregnant? Shes not feeling weird or anything yet.

Well have a nice day guys! I hope to hear some replies! Shocked
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Mabel
replied on August 14th, 2008
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You didn't come in her. You came in a condom. There is a major difference! Sounds like she is most likely NOT pregnant. Good job using a condom!

She can take a pregnancy test since she is 'late'.
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Illusions
replied on August 14th, 2008
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You don't have anything to worry about, if you wore a condom and it didn't break theres no way for her to get pregnant. Spermicides on condoms help some what but its very minimum for really any help at all. But I would not worry ive had scares just like you before and every things came out fine. If you and your girlfriend continue to have sex i suggest her being put on birth control so you guys wont have a scare again. Keep with using the condoms

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Mabel
replied on August 14th, 2008
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Illusions wrote:
You don't have anything to worry about, if you wore a condom and it didn't break theres no way for her to get pregnant. Spermicides on condoms help some what but its very minimum for really any help at all. But I would not worry ive had scares just like you before and every things came out fine. If you and your girlfriend continue to have sex i suggest her being put on birth control so you guys wont have a scare again. Keep with using the condoms

Hope this helps


Condoms are not 100% protection though. So even with condom use there is a slim chance of pregnancy. While I wouldn't think this boy's girlfriend is pregnant, it is not prudent to say there is no way for her to get pregnant.

Stranger things have happened. Like all the girls who come on here and say they've gotten pregnant while on the birth control pill. The pill is MORE effective than a condom. So there is a possibility, albeit slim.
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Zanny
replied on August 14th, 2008
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Ingi's right, with perfect use (ie. no spillage or breakage) condoms are only about 97% effective. I'm not saying this to scare you, just to inform you. Your girlfriend probably ISN'T pregnant, her period could be late due to a number of reasons.. I know when I was younger my periods weren't always regular. If she was pregnant, however, a pregnancy test would show up positive by now so maybe she should take one to ease her mind.. & yours!

If the two of you are going to carry on having a sexual relationship then maybe she should get on the birth control pill. That alone is about 99% effective, so if you used that as well as condoms the chance of her getting pregnant would be extremely slim & you wouldn't have to worry every month!

Good luck.
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Amethyst_Butterfly
replied on August 14th, 2008
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this is totally off subject, but
Zanny I love your new color, its gorgeous!
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Zanny
replied on August 15th, 2008
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Thank you! Mr. Green
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dude1234
replied on August 30th, 2008
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Oh boy I forgot to update this topic! Thank god she wasnt she got it a few days late!
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zigemyster
replied on August 30th, 2008
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I'm sure this is a relief to you both. Be safe & protected Smile

~Zig
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