You need to go to the doctor or emergency room if you are still bleeding. I don't want to sound insensitive but it can be dangerous for you if there is anything remaining in you after a miscarriage. I'm sorry for your loss if you did miscarry but you need to take care of yourself to ensure that you remain healthy and another pregnancy is possible.

what do you think about this. last period was april 20 had sex protected on may 20. Pregant 4 days later. about 2 weeks in having really bad cramps started spotting for 2 days and the end of day 2 passed a quater sized brown and red clot.Few weeks later having pains so bad fell to the ground and cant get up. 2 days later starting bleeding enough to fill up half a pad. this went on for about 6 day maybe even 7. later that night passed a 2 inch blood clot then 4 hours later passed another 2 inch blood clot. Does any of this sound normal to you??.No they have a resp infection the flu and on ivs now. Its eating says she lost enought weight to have her boobs shrunk.I tought if you where pregant you need to eat and your boobs grow i am really confused about all this

I have no idea what is going on with her. What have the doctors said? Do they think she is in danger of miscarrying?

she isnt going to the docotor
this happend after she went to the doc and they used a rod in her vagina and she says she saw 2 inside of her but i wouldnt know. she was only a month and doing this. I just dont think this is right. No she is having breathing problems and got the flu. She was about 300 pounds but with all the weight loss from not eating i dont know now

I thought she was on an iv in the hospital. I think she needs to see a doctor or go to the emergency room as soon as possible.

she is putting it off for some reason i told her this she dont want to go

She is probably scared and maybe a little depressed at the thought of a miscarriage. From what you are saying about the blood she really should get to the ER. It's not normal to bleed like that during pregnancy.

Yes i know its not normal but i have asked her to take another test and she wont. she says you dont believe. But i dont know what cause the breathing problems. But i agree with you all the bleeding isnt normal. I mean she just dont want to listen. Some what she seems like there is a reason why she wont do it. I mean it all sounds bad to me!

Well, she can be doing herself or the baby more harm by not going to the ER. I hope she agrees to go with you soon.

My sister bled throughout her whole 1st trimester, sometimes clots and all. Well she had twins and they were fine. Ur body may be rejecting the pregnancy but with rest and hormones u may be able to help it. Only dr can tell u if u are still pregnant tho.

Well for one not resting working 12 hours a day not sleeping not eating got a breathing infection and the flu.I dont know if she has been to the doc she wont show me anything it only talk i dont have anything on paper. So you can detect twin in a month of being pregnant?

She dont know what is going on with her body at all i told her is is possible for you to have had a misscarriage and now she just said i am bleeding again today. this stuff isnt normal at all. she just needs to go home and get checked out cause this isnt normal

Your wife needs to know how important it is to have regular doctor visits during pregnancy. Is she taking pre-natal vitamins? Why doesn't she want to go to the doctor?

I dont know why she wont go or anything.Its like she is hiding something from me. I cant even see a bill or a pic of what she saw at the docs at all

That's very strange. Maybe you should call her doctor. You do have a right to know what's going on.

Because of patient confidentiality rules the doctor will not share her medical information without her consent. Is it possible that she is faking the pregnancy/ miscarriage? Could she be using her situation to hold onto you?

I was thinking the same thing.

I really feel that way. I only ask for simple things and i get a hand full of trouble. I got in heated discussion when i told her wow you got preganant in 4-5 days? I said i never know it to go that fast! So i asked her when her last period was. In April there was no May period. All i ask is for her is to take a test and show me. But she cant do it

I think there could be two different things going on here. Either she does not want to face the fact that she may have miscarried or she faked the pregnancy and is now faking the miscarriage. Either way, it is not good.
Good luck in getting the truth from her.