I had an issue this am, finding blood along with other symptoms. Sometimes you can Google stuff...but in the end I'm not sure if it helps paranoia...or just worsens it.
As far as your doctor goes, perhaps you could put in referral to transfer to another doctor. I've dealt with lackadaisical personalities in the medical profession and you should never have to feel like you are feeling right now. You pay him/her for a reason. It seems stupid to tiptoe around his/her wants. Good luck.
I like to remember that some people underestimate symptoms. You are simply worrying as you should.