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Q: Possibility i'm pregnant

asked by: karenfear on February 20th, 2009

New User

im 14 and i my be pregnant, and i know what everyones going to say "you shouldnt be having unprotected sex" but let me just tell you this wasnt planned.
please please please help me
it would mean the world to me if you would just tell me the possibility and not just say take a test...
i will eventually
thanks

my "period" started jan. 29th
but was really brown, light, and really short.
it has never been this short EVER.
lasted exactly 3 days.
i havent had any "symptoms", besides tiredness and bloating, for the past few weeks until now.
it was like it hit me super fast.
i woke up nauseous, tired, and hurting all over.
thought i had the flu, because my temp. was higher than usual.
ive had headaches

and ive been eating alot...
havent thrown up, but ive been nauseous and crampy.
and i have been having weird sensations in my tummy, not like baby kicking lol but like just pains.
please help me...

--i had unprotected intercourse the 16th 17th (of jan) and the 15th of febuary.
16 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

i do have a cough/sore throat and did have a fever yesterday
16 hours ago

ok my weird period started the 29th
my last normal period was the 3rd of jan

Replies(5)

ProudMommyof2008

replied on February 20th, 2009

Active User, very eHealthy

anytime you have unprotected sex there is the chance of pregnancy.
and you could be pregnant, but unfortunately none of us will be able to tell you if you are or not, because we dont know either.
and i know you dont want to hear it, but only a pregnancy test or your doctor will be able to tell you this, and you better do one or the other soon. and you should let your mom at least know about this.
sooner or later if you are pregnant, she's going to know. and the sooner you say something the more time they have to accept this.
but i would really go get a test soon, and use as instructed[do it in the morning with your first urine] and see a doctor.
all the best hun, and if you need to talk you can PM me anytime.

Users who thank ProudMommyof2008 for this post: karenfear

Nick157

replied on June 9th, 2009

Experienced User

Definitely do a pregnancy test. If it comes out positive, then I recommend finding your closes planned parenthood clinic and talking to them. If you do not want a child, terminate the pregnancy. This is your choice, no one else's. Don't let other people try to tell you that its immoral or wrong. Do what's best for you. Dont flush your life down the toilet for the sake of a multicellular organism.

SD4EVER

replied on September 7th, 2009

New User

Your not the only one thats going through that

Im 15, and I had unprotected sex, and I have been having a lot of stomach pains, and other symptons
, but I would advise you to take a pregnancy test
first, and if your scared to tell your parents
then tell them when your stomach starts to show,
and if you dont want to have the baby, then there's
this pill that you can take to get rid of the baby,
the baby is just a cell right now, so its not like
its alive, but you can go to a drug store, and ask
them about that pill

SD4EVER

replied on September 7th, 2009

New User

Jinjer

replied on September 18th, 2009

Experienced User

Re: Your not the only one thats going through that

SD4EVER wrote:

sorry, all I can think is please gawd, don't let this girl be pregnant.
The pill your refering to is the morning after pill. It is designed to be taken the morning and up to 72 hours after sex. It prevents the egg from being fertilized, not made to "get rid of the baby"
Another type of pill, the abortion pill (slang term)you do have to have a prescription for. If its been a month or more no doctor or pharmacist will give a script or fill it.
As an aside, Im pro choice with the exception of using abortion as birth control. You state it's just a cell right now so it's not like it's alive but I am curious as to how the reasoning that a cell...a LIVING thing can combine with another cell also a LIVING thing and create something not alive that has the potential to be a living thing if given enough time to evolve. Doesn't add up.

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