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I have recently realized that my fiance is addicted to porn. We are both 25 years old and very healthy. He never wants sex! I know porn is just something guys do but why so much. I don't know if him being in the navy b4 we met has anything to do with it or not. I am a pretty good looking girl, entered and won beauty contest. Im 5'3" 110lbs 36c bust Athletic. I just can't figure it out please help me?!?!?!
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replied June 15th, 2011
no one has any comments?
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replied January 12th, 2012
i agree with you porn addiction is dangerous for every body because it give effect to our body and gives hurt. if you got sex addiction exactly you visit here to cure it
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replied June 15th, 2011
Just something guys do...I have a girlfriend of almost a year and I still enjoy masturbation. There is just less pressure. Maybe you just need to make your sex life more fun, more spontaneous and less serious.
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replied June 20th, 2011
I try...he doesn't care for lingerie, he just turns me down when ever I try. When we do have sex its great and I know he enjoys it, it just rare that he wants to do it. Then he stays up late to play video games and then he will watch porn right b4 coming to bed with me. I am willing all the time...I want to make him happy. He says I am to aggressive so i stop trying then we dont have sex at all. I am just soo confused.
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replied June 21st, 2011
s try setting a date... say this day is your first person porn day. set up a camra wether its on or not and tell him he can do with you as he pleeses. let him work with your body. i am also addicted to porn!it is just the pece of mind... you feel like your there.
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replied June 21st, 2011
How is that better than real sex? I dont mind if he watches it but dont stop having sex with me!
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replied July 26th, 2011
This is when I would feel unsatisfying. I'm pregnant and I'm horny a lot. My boyfriend agreed to stop b/c it made me feel this way. He apologized sincerely. I suggest you talk to him about why he watches it before going to bed when he's coming to bed to you...
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replied August 25th, 2011
Sounds like he is going thru the 53yrs phase. You need to get him away from any audio-visual and go on short trips, get him interested in you again. Good luck
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replied January 12th, 2012
maybe hes gay ? what kind of porn is he watching
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replied January 15th, 2012
If it is something he watches now and then I would say no it's not an addiction. If he is constantly on his pc, phone or other device looking at it then yes. Addict. If he won't watch it with you that would bother me. If he is also talking to other girls, hiding his phone from you and not telling you where he is going or lies about it then he would be cheating and you should cut off his balls.
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replied February 8th, 2012
Hey Confused, I'm not sure if this is relevant anymore, seeing the dating of the last posting, but I would offer my opinion from a guys point of view. Pornography and masturbation allow a male to feel like their having something new and exciting. It's my opinion that a male's mindset is always about the next conquest and the next adventure. Unfortunately, this behavior quickly becomes an addiction, because it is easy and readily available even for a husband with an eager spouse. It's not you at all, it's an addiction, one that allows your mate to have sex with whoever he wants any time he wants and however he wants. Like any addiction, pornography and masturbation, will not go away overnight, if ever, so be aware, and know that your man may fight and lose a battle every now and then, but if he's trying, make sure you forgive him and support him. Hope this helps.
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