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pooping during sex & not knowing
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First Helper louielouie5150
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replied March 9th, 2012
Has this happened to anyone else? Is it something that should be discussed with a doctor?
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replied March 13th, 2012
it has happened to me too..but when i have sex with my husband sometimes he makes me come so hard that i lose my control and i squirt and sometimes poop. squirting and pooping is perfectly normal during sex.
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Users who thank Talinamarie for this post: kittykittykitty  hungry4knowledge 

replied March 13th, 2012
Thanks for your input. It was somewhat embarrassing especially when he says 'hun you pooped' I'm thinking that he has never been with anyone else who had done this so I thought that it wasn't a thing that should happen. Thanks again for the reply.
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replied March 31st, 2012
Pooped during sex super emBarrassed what do I do
It happened to me recently. Sometimes your muscles get completely relaxed during sex that it happens. I'm still embarrassed. Ecause it was the first time it has happened and I don't know if my boyfriend will get over it, he was so disgusted, what do I do? He said it was a turn off but it wasn't like I purposely did it.. Help!!!
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replied November 11th, 2013
It's absolutely normal, don't worry...
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replied April 1st, 2012
Cupcake2284 When this happened to me I to was embarrassed & still very embarrassed. I'm almost scared to even have sex anymore! I hope you find the answers you need. I'm still wondering.
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replied April 1st, 2012
My boyfriend was so disgusted by it and now he is not talking to me and I'm afraid he may dump me but it's not like I purposely did it.. I'm embarrassed and baffled by it..
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replied April 2nd, 2012
I don't mean to be rude, but your boyfriend needs to realize he's between your legs down there. All those parts are connected and !**@! happens sometimes. I recommend explaining to him it wasn't intentional (and that you're mortified about it) and then dropping it. If he can't get over it, it might be the end of the line Sad
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replied April 3rd, 2012
I've tried that already and he is still non responsive. It sucks but oh we'll and like you said, sh** happens and life goes on.. BTW this is a person who claims he wants to marry me..
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replied May 13th, 2012
cupcake2284 hmm really? he wants to marry you but hey what if u get sick n he needs to wash ur butt i bet he d hire someone to do that..
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replied March 30th, 2013
I too have had the same happen to me but I must be very lucky as my partner was very understanding and made me feel ok and not embarrassed as he understands that I love him and whilst we are making love and both reaching orgasm (i squirted too)that neither of us are in complete control of our bodies. I have also entered his anus to stimulate the prostate and had poop on my finger......so what.....its natural. If the boyfriend doesn't like it then he is not worth sharing your most intimate feelings with you and he doesn't deserve you. Good luck...I think you will need it if you stay with him
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replied April 1st, 2012
Extremely eHealthy
Don't worry too much as there are guys out there who would pay for that level of appreciation for their efforts!

OK it's not the average response you expect from the lady in the bed but on the other hand I guess it is something interesting to write about in the diary.
I hope he wasn't performing oral at the time?

Your boyfriends correct response should have been "wow, did I make you do THAT!"
He should be pleased and not disgusted - pooping is a fairly normal bodily function after all and it is only current social conventions and taboos that make it unacceptable to share it with your partner...
Other times and other places pooping used to be a shared convivial and almost social occasion...

He certainly wouldn't be suitable for a career in medicine...

Might be a good idea in future to try and empty your bowels before a session like that and if that isn't successful make sure you protect the sheet and have some wetwipes and kleenex handy.

I have heard of this before and is not uncommon in the problem pages of the sort of soft-porn magazines that will print letters about such things, although I have not experienced it and I don't know any who have, I do know it has been on the mind of some of the women I have spoken with - so I think pooping during orgasm has been a close thing for them at some time...

It has happened - you pooped in bed! You cannot make it unhappen and it isn't going to go away (you did clean up? its not still there is it?) so there is no point worrying about it. Having an orgasm is a bit like being drunk - you aren't really in control of your actions at that time and cannot really be blamed for whatever you do while in the throes of orgasm - some women scream and some use foul language, some get really violent with the strength of ten men and some crap the bed - so what?

The only way to put this behind you is to see the humour in it and if you can't it will haunt you for ever...
If your boyfriend can't put his shock and disgust behind him it is entirely his own problem. You have nothing to apologise for and little to be embarrassed about!

One final thing - how about having a disclaimer or health warning tattooed somewhere prominent?
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Users who thank verne01 for this post: hungry4knowledge 

replied September 16th, 2013
AWESOME!!!!
My hubz and I have recently have had this happened to us for the second time last night.
Ok, maybe a bit of TMI, but I had been super constipated w/ an impacted bowel from some meds. After last night's incidence I have been drinking this hardcore drink they gave me @ the Dr. My cousin is the Pharm and she called me to let me know this drink was SERIOUS BIZNESS. I have made an apt w/ my Gyno to make sure that there isn't anything to do w/ a blockage or the blasted hemorrhoids....
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replied September 16th, 2013
oh, and my husband is amazing about it. brings the wipes, has fresh sheets on before I'm even back from the shower of shame......he assures me that it is very normal and OK though....
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replied April 1st, 2012
ThaNk you Verne01 that made me feel so much better about the situation. I really appreciate it..
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replied May 8th, 2012
This is funny, Im glad to see it has happened to someone else. This happened to me tonight with a guy that I have been dating only a few weeks now. Thus is why I looked this forum up...lol...Im 25 and dont think Ive ever had a real orgasm until him...not to mention I never knew I was a squirter until tonight. After I got his couch messy from that we decided to go upstairs and finish up...thats when he realized there was something on him. As he started to clean himself I started to clean myself and what I at first thought was blood because I am suppose to start my period in a couple of days turned out to be something else...and it was more on me than him and I didn't even realize!!!! When he said "babe..I don't think this is blood...I think its something else.." I was mortified but as always try to laugh my embarrassment off. Hes in his 40s so he didn't freak out too much. We cleaned up then continued having sex until he finished. I guess thats a good sign? After we took a shower together and cleaned up and laughed about it a little. I laughed through my embarrassment but I am mortified! I can't believe that happened. Its not like I thought I had to "go" before we started..otherwise I would have.
Im hoping that doesn't drive him away because I actually like this one. Can't even believe myself right now...
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Users who thank cupcake7925 for this post: sweetie2591 

replied June 27th, 2012
You have no idea how much your post helped me. This happened to me last night, and I was so embarrassed and couldn't stop covering my face. I looked up online if it has happened to other people and everyone kept saying how disgusting it was. Let's see if this guy stays around. I must have been SUPER relaxed.
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replied September 20th, 2013
Awww Good luck! I hope he just forgets about it and you stay together
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replied September 15th, 2012
this happened to me last night as well! last night the sex was insanely good! I came like 3 times! after a while I couldn't take it anymore I was so tired, but he kept making me go harder. I wasn't really minding it since it felt so good. but then there was like weird smell. I was like babe did you just fart? and he's all uh no. anyways we kept going he finally came and then we were laying in bed. like 5 min later he wanted more so he opened my legs and the smell was back. he goes uhhh I think you.... my first instinct was I was bleeding. I used to have an open wound right by the opening of my vag I got it checked out ad ten said it was just the akin got rubbed off from rough sex. anyways I use to bleed whenever we did it, but that was monthsss ago! so I was Kinda confused when he said it might be blood. he then turned on the light and goes, uhh baby I don't want you to get embarrassed... but uhhh.... then I lpoked down and noticed I seriously pooped! myself!!!! I was so embarrassed but tried to laugh it off. he kept saying it didn't matter and that he didn't care at all. but I was humiliated!!!! I instantly went and took a shower and the rest of the night was just back to normal cuddling and movies. and today I though i should look up ad see what happened. turns out its completely normal and it was just insane sex that made me come so hard I pooped! myself hahahahah kinda excited to explain that to my boyfriend later on today! aha
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replied January 14th, 2013
wow
OMG!!!! I am so happy to read that it's a normal thing and that I am not the only one who has done this. Even tho it was only a little bit, I was completely embarrassed.
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replied February 10th, 2013
Not sure if this thread is still active but would love some additional feed back... Currently i am dealing with this situation and trying to figure out what could be causing this problem... This has just started happening and was wondering if its a lack of muscle strength in the lower part of the body.
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replied February 12th, 2013
I guess this thread is dead.. Dang.. Really needed this
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replied March 24th, 2013
have to poop while have sexual orgasm
OMG I been going through this since I first started have sex and now my boyfriend want to experience this but I always feel like I have to poop and tonight was the same thing. But I'm happy that I found this to know that it nothing to be embarrassed about now. Think you lady's
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replied June 15th, 2013
Whoa, I'm to happy to have found this thread. This has happened to me twice. It's so embarrassing. It's never occurred before but this guy I am dating is incredible. I too initially thought it was blood, Idt he noticed it but I saw it in ass I went to take a shower. :/
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replied September 23rd, 2013
This has happened to me before & i was told it was normal so after people started to judge me for it i just brushed it off! Tonight it happened to my girlfriend during sex and she felt so bad and upset at herself so i decided to look it u so we could both know that there is nothing wrong with us! Thank you all for making us feel better!!!
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replied January 18th, 2014
Oh my god. This just happened to me. My boyfriend was using a vibrator on me and it felt so good and then I smelled something and realized I pooped during our session. He was really sweet about it and tried to find the humor in it, but not at my expense. While I was in the bathroom cleaning up he took the sheets off and when I came back into the room we continued having sex. Afterwards I was still really embarrassed and he pulled me close and said, "yeah that's embarrassing but its okay, gross things come out of our bodies." And we fell asleep in each others arms. Hopefully this does not happen again and glad I am not the only one.
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