Ok, heres the deal... Do not judge me for my age, that is not my question. I am 17 years old. I have a fiance who i have been dating for 3 years. He is in his 2nd year of a very good college for mechanical engineering. I am still in high school but already we have our own house that has is being paid for by my mom [ its small but a 3 bedroom and in a nice neighborhood] The reason my mom is paying for my house rite now is because when my parents got divorced they put in the divorce papers that my mom pays for my housing when im in college and my dad pays for 3/4 of college tuition... so yea this house is considered my dorm for college beacuse the payment evenr month is actually less than college dorm fees... when i graduate i have to pay for the rest of the house... i have a good amount of money in the bank from working since i was 13 and money my mom has saved for me since i was little and some from a grandparent that passed... i have my own car that is payed off and my fiance has a good job and will be making $60,000 out of college in 2 years... We are planning on trying for a baby next spring when i will be 18 1/2 and he will be almost 20 ... this is OUR decision... i do know how hard rasing a baby is because i have been there.. up all night when there sick and not being able to go out with friends... i pretty much raised my twin nephews my sister abandoned when they were only 6 months old. i also know IT WILL be harder than that because even then i didnt have to worry about the money sitution or going through the pregnancy and my mom was obviously there to help... My fiance and I have discussed this many times and feel this is what we want and fits us as a couple.
Just wanted to give you some background info before i asked my question... But also I have PCOS [ polycystic ovarian syndrom]
I was wondering what complications this could cause, what i can do to prevent them, or if it will be better to have my children at a younger age since i know this condition can cause infertility. Also... with the information provided, if there is any other responsiblities/ sacrifices i have forgot about or not considerd that u can help me with since I am young and by all means DO NOT want to make the wrong choice....