im a 19 years old boy . i have a habit of
masturbation . i started at age of 14 .
but at 16th year i had completely forgot
about it engaged in studies etc etc ..
then again at 17 i started .. now since 1
year i do it 3 to 4 times a day
im unable to control my self . this is
actually affecting my studies also....
also my major problem is i ejaculate in
just 15 to 20 seconds . wat are the
consequences ... how to stop this . can i
recover......... please help
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Replies(5)
harmony1replied on August 17th, 2008
Supporter
Maybe you're just a little bored. try and
occupy yourself with other things if you
feel unhappy about the situation. nothing
wrong with what you're doing. you're a
young lad and just experimenting and it's
actually a healthy thing to do for
yourself.
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worriedauzzireplied on August 17th, 2008
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
GET A GIRLFRIEND
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exintrovertreplied on August 28th, 2008
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
worriedauzzi
wrote:
GET A
GIRLFRIEND
That is not very nice. This guy is
concerned about whether or not his
behavior is normal. That is no different
than those who come on here asking if a
certain physical symptom is something to
worry about.
He just needs reassurance and an honest
response regarding the potential
harmfulness of his actions (or lack
thereof)
In response to your question,
lookforlohith, I can tell you about what I
know. When I was 16, I became so addicted
to sexual gratification that I would
literally do it all day. It went on for a
long time like that. I eventually decided
to go to the doctor because I was not
having my period, and as great as that
was, I decided that it might be cause for
concern.
They discovered an extreme level of
testosterone in my system - I am a girl
but the levels were high even for men.
That was accounting for the sex drive.
They found a sertoli-leydig cell tumor on
my ovary that was producing the
testosterone. Thankfully, they were able
to remove it and I am fine.
I am not telling this to scare you. In the
absence of other physical symptoms, I
would presume that it is just normal sex
drive. The fact that it is interferring
with other parts of you life might pique a
little bit of concern, though, and you
might ask a psychologist if your sex drive
is higher than a normal 19 year old guy.
AFAIK, you are coming up on your sexual
prime. But if it concerns you, don't
ignore it.
HTH.
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MMAFanAtlreplied on September 18th, 2008
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
I wouldn't worry too much about it man. I
do it at least 3-4 times a day wether i'm
currently dating someone or not. I've
even done it when my girl was passed out
next to me. I'm no doctor but this just
seems like normal male behavior, but I
could be wrong. Are you a virgin? If so,
did you have the 15 second problem with
her? I ask because I last a lot longer
with a girl than by myself. I obviously
enjoy being with a girl much more, but I
don't want to be done untill she is. I'm
not sure how, but I've learned how to do
this. I'm not sure but I think there
might be some type of treatment for the
ol' 15 second problem. Also, using a
condom could help a lot as you can't feel
nearly as much. I can't even finish when
using a condom, which btw you always
should. Anyway, good luck.
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christopherinpoolreplied on September 20th, 2008
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Perhaps you've kind of annoyed ur cervix a
little. which can cause it to
cramp..mildly. i dunno how severe your
cramps are, or how long theyve lasted.