Please tell me i don't have herpes

I know what you mean...my ex-hubby was like that in the beginning. Makes it difficult to be spontaneous, when the urge strikes. In my case, I thought it could be smegma, or maybe his hygeine. Instead of telling my hubby his smell offended me, I told him I am HUGELY turned on by exceptional hygeine, manscaping and could spend hours on an extra clean member. Nothing wrong at all with a man not being circumsized, but they just need to be a little more diligent in the cleaning area. Much like we have to for them. I hope this helps.

If you're worried about hurting his feelings then perhaps you could suggest having a sexy shower/bath together before you go down on him!

yeah this is the real situation where you get struck up between the smell and his feelings.... if you feel his smell is odd then i would suggest you to clean it yourself as it would lead to giving him pleasure and also u would clean it up and then u can have it.... Its a difficult job but then you have to set up your mind by imagining it as a choco candy and everything goes well