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helix

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Please only women answer this question,
Posted: 05-05-08 16:09pm

Hi ,I am 28 male single.
Please ladies what should i do?
Last week my 25 year old sister called me crying sayig her fiance cheated on her and kickeed her out! She asked to come live with me and if i would come get her.
What could i say? She lived in the next state so it took me 14 hours to drive there. Once i got there i felt real sick and tired,I got into a rough and tumble with her man and we both ended up spending a night in the local jail. The next day escorted by the police i picked up my sister and loaded as much of her stuff into myminivan.For the 1st couple hours all she did was cry,I calmed her buy saying how much of an ass he was,+ i bought her a few wine coolers.
I drove till we was half way home then stopped and rented a cheap but clean looking motel room with 2 beds.
She went and took a shower as i walked across the road and grabbed us some munchies and brew.
THIS PART IS MY PROBLEM

As i walked back iunto the motel room i was shocked and excited to see a perfectly beautiful naked woman
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Aunt WeeWee

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Posted: 05-27-08 13:42pm

DUDE!!!! Thats your sister! Rent a porno dude. God is sooooo gon judge u for this one. EWWW.....
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worrywart01

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Posted: 05-27-08 15:13pm

why was your sister naked in your room........and how could you in any way be turned on by that...if I saw my brother i would look away so fast and be completely scarred for life
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Posted: 05-27-08 16:11pm

Your sister is a woman and she does have all that comes with being a woman. I question why your sister felt it was appropriate to walk out of the shower naked in front of you. This is a boundaries issue. It is inappropriate at best and leaves some question as to her intent. Do not act on this. Incest is illegal and immoral by many standards. You may want to consider counseling if this becomes a problem for you.
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Roberta777

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Posted: 06-03-08 18:10pm

Deliberately walked in front of you to provoke you into sexual thoughts. She probably came out of the shower, had a few wine coolers (which is no excuse to let down your moral territorities) but after the breakup probably was beaten up emotionally with all the drama.

Hey! A beautiful body is a beautiful body. But, not your own sister Dude! Gotta be able to go out there and get somebody for yourself. Not a world of hurt and grief.

Take care of yourself and thanks for rescuing your Sis.
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Mikolas

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Posted: 06-10-08 14:36pm

If your initial reaction was simply that you see a beautiful naked woman, I don't believe something is wrong with that. Instincts are instincts, they come first, then the human morals kicks in. For instance, I find myself doing this, and have quite a time watching other men do this, when checking out a somewhat revealing lady. I can't seem to stop myself when I'm not focusing, then I keep myself in check and turn away and silently scold myself. Have you ever purposely tried waiting for a pretty girl to pass by, to specifically look at the reactions of other guys automatically check her out? Pretty amusing, but it can't be helped, it just comes naturally.

However, if the morals didn't kick in, then we may have a problem in our hands. You didn't specify, what your thoughts were after this initial moment, that may be key to deciding if its going to be a problem for you.

On a side note, don't let anybody who insults you for this on this forum or anywhere else get to you. It isn't any of us to judge incest is "wrong". That is a whole other debate right there, since it can differ within each society or culture. I myself personally think it is disgusting, but that just means I've fallen into societal standards, not that I'm right for thinking that way. There are current existing cultures out there that still condone incest, so do not judge nor question a tradition that has been long existent before before yourselves. Perhaps she did this intentionally, perhaps not, based on his story, we know neither.

A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, regardless of who she is.

To the people who posted before me, I believe many of you said things without further investigating the story, and made many assumptions.
For instance, I don't believe he ever stated that his sister walked out naked in front of him, he only stated that he saw her naked as he walked back into the room. Another possible explanation for why she was out of the room naked in the first place, is that she left all her clothes out and thought he wasn't around and decided to chance running out. Numerous possibilities could have explained her actions, he was not specific enough to suggest that these possibilities couldn't have occurred.

P.S. In an attempt to make things a little less tensive, I was going to say if you can give me her number, but then I didn't know how you'd respond to that. =P
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