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Q: Please only women answer this question,
asked by: helix on May 5th, 2008
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Hi ,I am 28 male single.
Please ladies what should i do?
Last week my 25 year old sister called me crying sayig her fiance cheated on her and kickeed her out! She asked to come live with me and if i would come get her.
What could i say? She lived in the next state so it took me 14 hours to drive there. Once i got there i felt real sick and tired,I got into a rough and tumble with her man and we both ended up spending a night in the local jail. The next day escorted by the police i picked up my sister and loaded as much of her stuff into myminivan.For the 1st couple hours all she did was cry,I calmed her buy saying how much of an ass he was, i bought her a few wine coolers.
I drove till we was half way home then stopped and rented a cheap but clean looking motel room with 2 beds.
She went and took a shower as i walked across the road and grabbed us some munchies and brew.
THIS PART IS MY PROBLEM

As i walked back iunto the motel room i was shocked and excited to see a perfectly beautiful naked woman
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Aunt WeeWee
replied on May 27th, 2008
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DUDE!!!! Thats your sister! Rent a porno dude. God is sooooo gon judge u for this one. EWWW.....
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worrywart01
replied on May 27th, 2008
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why was your sister naked in your room........and how could you in any way be turned on by that...if I saw my brother i would look away so fast and be completely scarred for life
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antigone
replied on May 27th, 2008
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Your sister is a woman and she does have all that comes with being a woman. I question why your sister felt it was appropriate to walk out of the shower naked in front of you. This is a boundaries issue. It is inappropriate at best and leaves some question as to her intent. Do not act on this. Incest is illegal and immoral by many standards. You may want to consider counseling if this becomes a problem for you.
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Roberta777
replied on June 3rd, 2008
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Don't Think Your Sister
Deliberately walked in front of you to provoke you into sexual thoughts. She probably came out of the shower, had a few wine coolers (which is no excuse to let down your moral territorities) but after the breakup probably was beaten up emotionally with all the drama.

Hey! A beautiful body is a beautiful body. But, not your own sister Dude! Gotta be able to go out there and get somebody for yourself. Not a world of hurt and grief.

Take care of yourself and thanks for rescuing your Sis.
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Mikolas
replied on June 10th, 2008
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If your initial reaction was simply that you see a beautiful naked woman, I don't believe something is wrong with that. Instincts are instincts, they come first, then the human morals kicks in. For instance, I find myself doing this, and have quite a time watching other men do this, when checking out a somewhat revealing lady. I can't seem to stop myself when I'm not focusing, then I keep myself in check and turn away and silently scold myself. Have you ever purposely tried waiting for a pretty girl to pass by, to specifically look at the reactions of other guys automatically check her out? Pretty amusing, but it can't be helped, it just comes naturally.

However, if the morals didn't kick in, then we may have a problem in our hands. You didn't specify, what your thoughts were after this initial moment, that may be key to deciding if its going to be a problem for you.

On a side note, don't let anybody who insults you for this on this forum or anywhere else get to you. It isn't any of us to judge incest is "wrong". That is a whole other debate right there, since it can differ within each society or culture. I myself personally think it is disgusting, but that just means I've fallen into societal standards, not that I'm right for thinking that way. There are current existing cultures out there that still condone incest, so do not judge nor question a tradition that has been long existent before before yourselves. Perhaps she did this intentionally, perhaps not, based on his story, we know neither.

A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, regardless of who she is.

To the people who posted before me, I believe many of you said things without further investigating the story, and made many assumptions.
For instance, I don't believe he ever stated that his sister walked out naked in front of him, he only stated that he saw her naked as he walked back into the room. Another possible explanation for why she was out of the room naked in the first place, is that she left all her clothes out and thought he wasn't around and decided to chance running out. Numerous possibilities could have explained her actions, he was not specific enough to suggest that these possibilities couldn't have occurred.

P.S. In an attempt to make things a little less tensive, I was going to say if you can give me her number, but then I didn't know how you'd respond to that. =P
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Manny25
replied on July 16th, 2009
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W0LF
replied on July 16th, 2009
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Neither of you meant any harm. You certainly weren't trying to get a look at your sister. She was likely just caught at a bad moment. Worst case scenario she was a little messed up by the break-up and wanted some kind of male responce to help her wounded ego. If nothing else wine coolers are bad for judgement. If you were aroused you are just heterosexual, nothing wrong with that. If you act on that arousal things get a little less complimentary.

really it doesn't much matter if if she's related to you or not. You shouldn't contemplate anything with a woman in her position. She is very vulnerable and likely more than a little afraid. She needs your help and if you get entangled with her in a sexual manner it could prevent you from giving her the support and healthy recovery she really needs. If a couple of months go by and you're still finding her naked you can deal with the issue of incest, but for now she really needs to heal.
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ServiceU
replied on July 26th, 2009
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you can think that your sister is a beautiful women, but i hope that you wasnt thinking anything naughty about it.
my girlfriend lives in the U.S and they feel differently about nudity. it's not a big deal to see family members nude.
i m trying to be as positive as i possibly can in this situation.
if you did have bad thoughts about your sister, get them out your head.
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Jinjer
replied on July 30th, 2009
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Mikolas wrote:

On a side note, don't let anybody who insults you for this on this forum or anywhere else get to you. It isn't any of us to judge incest is "wrong". That is a whole other debate right there, since it can differ within each society or culture. I myself personally think it is disgusting, but that just means I've fallen into societal standards, not that I'm right for thinking that way. There are current existing cultures out there that still condone incest, so do not judge nor question a tradition that has been long existent before before yourselves. Perhaps she did this intentionally, perhaps not, based on his story, we know neither.


This poster is right on one hand. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman regardless of relation. As far as judging incest as "wrong" though... true, there are some cultures that practice this but there are reasons laws are made against it. Its not a societal standard its a genetic code. If we were supposed to breed with our relatives there wouldn't be birth defects as a side effect. Laws of nature dictate that it's wrong, not society. Even those cultures that still practice it are coming around to see this.
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mssara
replied on August 3rd, 2009
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your sis prob had a buzz going, and prob didnt think about what she was doing, ok shes hot, but shes your sis bro, That is not cool, let it go, dont make a mountian out of a mole hill.
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thoumas
replied on August 5th, 2009
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srry man but thats illegal
unless she is adopted or something
gl with ur problem
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ServiceU
replied on August 5th, 2009
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typo...i mean to say my best female friend was raised in africa and they feel differently about nudity. for example she probably see all her family members nude.

i heard of siblings having sex with each other and giving each other blow jobs. they were from overseas.
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Paujane
replied on September 30th, 2009
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NEVER EVER TRY T, u didnt even have to think of it. prohibited Act. no way!!!!
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kclrk24
replied on October 25th, 2009
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Just because shes beautiful doesnt make being incest ok. You need a woman who is no way related to you.
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motherofhighspiritedones
replied on October 26th, 2009
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I keep seeing the word "incest" pop up a LOT. The OP said NOTHING about an incestual relationship with his sister. He stated that he saw her naked and was shocked to see a beautiful woman. Heck, I have seen my brother naked, in all his glory, and he has a GREAT physique, does this mean I am turned on by him or want to have sex with him? No, it simply means that, just like the female body, the male body is a beautiful thing. Those of you who are screaming incest or "illegal", please refrain. It is perfectly OKAY to find a relative physically attractive and physical attraction does NOT always equal sexual attraction.
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kclrk24
replied on October 26th, 2009
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Well i see the guy who posted this isnt the only "Incest"
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motherofhighspiritedones
replied on October 27th, 2009
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kclrk24 wrote:
Well i see the guy who posted this isnt the only "Incest"

A word to the wise: DO NOT ACCUSE ONE OF SOMETHING illegal, unless you know the definition of what you are trying to accuse said person of.

Definition of incest: Incest is any sexual activity between close relatives (often within the immediate family) irrespective of the ages of the participants and irrespective of their consent, that is illegal or socially taboo. The type of sexual activity and the nature of the relationship between persons that constitutes a breach of law or social taboo vary with culture and jurisdiction. Some societies consider it to include only those who live in the same household, or who belong to the same clan or lineage; other societies consider it to include "blood relatives"; other societies further include those related by adoption or marriage.

NOWHERE in that definition does it state that finding a sibling or relative attractive is incest. Learn your definitions before accusing. A post like the one you made above can get you reported or banned, as accusing one of a crime they have not committed can be detrimental to them.

Also, the post I made that you responded to in such a harsh way was not directed at you. If it was, I would have quoted you, as I am doing now. The only advice I can give you regarding your rude and obscene posting is to NOT take things so personally. Just because we have differing opinions does not mean you need to accuse me of a crime or act so childish. For 21, you are not well-educated, and I do not mean that harshly. I mean that as purely observational, and there are ways you can help yourself by looking up the definition of things before accusing one of doing said thing. However, you need to be careful of accusing one of something, as stated earlier, especially if you do not know the correct definition.
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