worrywart01
replied on September 27th, 2008
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
| mle
wrote: |
| Easier said than done Peter.
But yes he is right what you did was wrong
and you definetly need to talk to him
about it. BUT.... I know what it feels
like to cheat on your loved one. ITS NOT
LIKE YOU DONT LOVE THEM. You can love them
wtih all your heart and still cheat. Its
how much you love yourself. It doesnt make
it any easier if your loved one doesnt
satify you in bed either. He may or may
not. If not, just talk to him about it and
go from
there..... |
HA..sorry...i must be reading this wrong
bc i swear u said u can love someone and
cheat on them? um..no..if its TRUE love
and you really love the person then that
person will come across your mind before
you take off your clothes with a
stranger...i could NEVER EVER do that to
my boyfriend...i love him with all my
heart and would never even put myself in
the position to do this...if you aren't
satisfied in bed that doesn't justify
cheating..at all..communicate..tell him
what you want, he cant read your mind....
as for the original poster..i agree that
what you did was wrong..but you cant take
it back..and idk if it'd be best to tell
him or not...i always say honesty is the
best policy..however this is a sure fire
way to mess things up...they do say
ignorance is bliss...though honestly..i
think i'd rather know if my "loved one"
were cheating on me..because that tells me
you DONT love me..you DIDN"T think about
me(and if you did and did it anyway then
thats TWICE as bad) and the relationship
is over..i refuse to fully commit myself
to someone who doesn't find me good
enough...cheating is one thing i find
intolerable personally, and if you can
tell it kinda gets my blood boiling
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