Hi everyone. I'm here because of a guy I started dating a month ago. He seemed perfect- complete gentleman. Would do anything for me to make me happy and comfortable when I would hang out with him at his place. I know its only been a month- but we spent a lot of time together in this past month. As time went on- I started seeing strange behaviors happen. For one- he started talking about how every female in his life is in love with him. A big warning sign was the fact that he is in the entertainment industry and he claimed that he had a writing partner whom he would spend many nights when he wasn't with me- writing with her through the night and spending the nights with her. I just found out that she is 19 years old. Well- before I found out she was 19- he started being abusive towards me. He would start comparing me to the 19 year old girl. He would act as though he didn't trust me. He said that his writing partner was trying to sabotage our relationship. (Which makes me wonder why a 32 year old man would listen to a 19 year old to begin with.) Recently- he told me that he has stopped hanging around her. He said that she is "dangerous" (I have texts and voicemails where he says this) He claimed that she almost cost him his job at one point. I tried to contact her secretly so that I could get her side of the story. She blocked me and went back to him and told him that I was crazy and that I was trying to get a hold of her. He's now claiming she's a "nice person" and hasn't done anything wrong.

So here I sit. I haven't done anything wrong. He claims he wasn't having a sexual relationship with her- but found out she is in love with him too.

Does anyone think maybe he has some sort of personality disorder? I will not tolerate his abuse anymore. He's really nice to me then he'll put me down. It's like a form of control. And it's a terrible cycle. (BTW- he also had his family members (whom I have never met before) call me to tell me how much he loves me and that the 19 year old girl is crazy.)

Please help!