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Q: plastic surgery needed ?
asked by: kuro1911 on August 8th, 2008
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Hi, im a 22 yr old male

i read countless of post in this forum related to ugly people, so please i dont want people posting not everyone is shallow and they look for inner beauty, or that if i sharpen my other qualities i will get someone, or if i dress properly...blah blah and stuff like that, or that if im a nice person i will meet someone, i tried them all and i talk to countless of girls yet when i ask them out they reject me. i had a gf before she was way out of my league, i think she pity me maybe thats why we went out, i have asked so many girls out that im already almost at like 1000 no's and 1 yes, i want to do plastic surgery but i was doing some research and in most cases they consider when ugly people go in and say i want to be good looking a "red flag"....so they send you to consular to talk blah blah. now my exgf and a freind of mine, they told me i have big eyes, that i look like an alien...anyways if people can give me their true opinion of what is wrong with me as i cannot see it for myself ( all i can see is that the bottom bridge in-between the nostrils hangs too low) , and what needs to be fix with surgery. i would really appreciate it

here is my pic
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OfficerJagger replied on August 8th, 2008
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I'm a girl - he is my honest opinion.

1. Smile - it presents confidence, and confidence is key. Somebody who appears as though they do not care about themself or anything else, is depressing and will turn women off.

2. Try to gain some weight

3. You don't have alien eyes, you have bedroom eyes *which MOST women find very sexy* And they are of normal size, unless you would consider my eyes big too...

You are still young and surrounded by *barbie girls* a lot of which now-a-days are extremely critical and cruel. I wouldn't read between the lines of what anyone has to say because they have something imperfect about them too.

P.S. I'm 5"7' and I use to be 160lbs, plain looking hair, no make-up EVER, I dressed however I was comfortable and the influence of people had me change myself dramatically.

Now, 4 years later... I'm 140lbs with an athletic-looking body, nice hair and styles every day, make-up every day, nice clothes, nice everything, even a nice car.

Why? Because I became too consumed in pleasing everyone else. I'm not actually any happier even though I know I look better than I did. I now spend 2 hours every morning in the bathroom getting ready. Pathetic 'eh? I touch up my make-up several times a day, and I blow all of my money on things that will appeal to everyone else.

Don't follow that, it's such a waste of your life. And my confidence is still the same.
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Marc209 replied on August 8th, 2008
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Well, your dimensions look ok, so you don't have my problem. I don't see anything they can really fix except for your ears.

I don't think it's just about being ugly though and being rejected. ugly and average looking guys are constantly rejected.
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kuro1911 replied on August 8th, 2008
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thanks for your comments guys, i really appreciate it
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