Right. You've lost control over your body, based on a choice you made. It's the same way with drugs, or alcohol, or anything else you choose to put into your body. It's a choice, usually, and you should have to live with the results. Especially because, unlike the drugs, which cannot grow up to think and feel, ejecting the baby affects someone else. Actually, it affects everyone else, while your right to "control your status" affects only you. The rights of the individual should not trump the rights of the whole.