I really need some advice, a little over two weeks ago i did something really stupid and gave in to my bi-curious urges and met up with a complete stranger from online. He said he was single and hiv free, though his prof said he a boyfriend, the one factor that worried me was that he said he had been assaulted on the "scene" a few months before.Though he seemed okay and said he had not updated his profile.
Now we went back to his house where we kissed a lot, and took part in mutual masturbation for quite a while, i am worried about cum or pre-cum from him getting on my penis as we touched each others members and our own without washing hands and such in between, we did not use condoms for this. Also we brushed against each other a bit naked including him rubbing against my ass area. But there was no penetrative sex on either side.
I'm very very scared about hiv especially as he was a complete stranger who may have been telling lies, its my fault i know but i cannot stop worrying. I called an sti hotline they said there was no risk, i went to a gmu clinic and the nurse said the risk was minimal, their health counsellor said there was always a risk. Online information generally suggests no risk and a few people on another health forum said the same though they are not doctors.
I am very scared and cannot stop obsessing about this, i spend hours online and have been looking at all sorts of sites and have to wait until October 3rd for a 12 week test which many people suggest i don't need.
I dont understand why the health counsellor said there was always a risk and what is scary is the guy could have had a different man every night.
Please give me some advice