My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've worked together for awile and recently became closer and have fallen in love, and are planning a future together. He is recently separated and from what I know, he takes high blood pressure meds.He's been going through a lo. When we have phone sex, he is able to become erect and ejaculate...Ive seen the pictures...we know what each other looks like, etc. We just met for the first time in person for 5 days...and he couldnt get hard. He did a few times, but it seemed like he would lose it when we started making love.

He says its not me...very attracted to me in every way but its hard not to think that it is me. He even took Viagra and it didnt work. He has a doctors appt with a psycologist this week and a urologist.

Thoughts?