My fiance and I have been dating for over three years and have decided to have sex. We tried multiple times using plentyyy of lubrication but the pain is too much. We looked it up and I saw something saying that its rare but that some women need a minor surgery to open up the area a little more and to break the hymen. I'm a very petite woman weighing 100 lbs and only 5'2. Anyone know about this? This is a pretty embarrassing and fustrating issue for us. If anyone has any suggestions it would be greatly appreciated! thanks for your time!