Just a heads up: Women can't post in the men's chat forum, nor can men post in the female chat forum.
My two cents:
Humanity is too diverse to proclaim sweeping generalisations like that. There is porn specifically geared towards what many women like. Or towards what many men like, or towards non-sexual things that some people happen to find very sexual. It's all a matter of taste. As long as it doesn't swallow your time or as long as it spices things up and makes a safe, sexual relationship more spicy, what's there to lose?