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Caroline

Most folks having issues with sexual anxiety find that it's easier to deal with then they set the pace romantically. Try not to let your libido get away from you, lots of comfort and affection, take things slowly. If things don't stay up be dismissive of the event, don't allow him to see your frustration even if he's showing his own, it will only add to the pressure for him to perform.

I didn't answer this as you said you wanted to ask a doctor...So now I will...This is a difficult problem to handle...You are caught in two places...Both must be dealt with carefully...One not letting him know your disappointment and the other comforting yourself...You must keep in mind that your libido's may not be the same...Your wants may differ from his...This is a learning point in your relationship....It is possibly that you as a woman could raise him up by your sexual actions...However, this is something that must be accomplished without his knowing what you are doing...Use hot sex...Licking his lips..Hot body movement...Sexual words said at the right moment can move mountains...Don't let him know what you are doing...Don't show anything but the thrill of his being a man....Best wishes,....

Caroline...