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Q: Performance anxiety or Erectile dysfuntion?
asked by: blumkin80 on March 14th, 2009
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I am a recently divorced 28 yr old male. My previous sex life with my wife was basically non-existent. In fact, I am almost positive she cheated on me a lot? I am in really good shape...I run and lift weights 6 days a week. I am 6-2 and weigh 190 lbs. I am now dating an extremely hot girl, and I am a little intimidated by her looks. She is absolutely perfect...huge breasts and in insane shape. We are both extremely attracted to one another. We moved quickly in bed and I had some problems with my penis becoming fully erect, which I had NEVER had a problem with before! I was really stressed out about it, and I had written it off as performance anxiety. We had tried again, as she really wants the sex...so do I!! However, I was still embarrassed out my previous inabilities! So, long story short...I got my hands on some Viagra. 25 MG pills. I was very cautious with the product, and only took a quarter of a pill (6.25mg). I just was hoping that this would help me get over the anxiety part. However, I do not want to continue to self diagnose or self medicate. Basically, is this enough to even do anything at all for me?? I had huge success in bed all week. As soon as I took the pill, I felt like super-man...almost instantly. We had sex 5 times last night. I am wondering if it is all mental, or if this would actually do anything? I still get erections in my sleep and often when I wake up in the morning. So I know I can still get an erection. I did talk to her this morning about it...I am just too honest to keep anything from her. She was very understanding, but I feel like she is upset I had been a little dishonest. Thanks for any help
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JavaMissus
replied on March 20th, 2009
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Between you, I and this computer, I'll bet you would be Superman with an aspirin in disguise of that pill.....Smile

Take care,
Caroline
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newguy431
replied on March 22nd, 2009
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Do you need a persciption for viagra?
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blumkin80
replied on March 23rd, 2009
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Listen up!!
I went to see a doctor. I was totally freaking out over this. If any of you are having any anxiety about talking with your doctor...get over it. They are professionals. He was very re-assuring. He told me he has tried all of the ED medications, and he has had his own issues with ED. This made me feel much more comfortable. I told him about my situation...about my wife cheating on me. "No sh*t you are having problem with sex" were his exact words. He diagnosed me with Pshychotrapic ED(sp?). He prescribed me Cialis 20 mg which he advised me to cut into quarters. I have been using this treatment for about a week now. Let me tell you...no exageration: "My sex life has gone through the roof!" I have been using the pills, which kind of bums me out, but I feel it is helping me immensely with the worry of my performance. I don't think about my erection...it just happens because I am aroused. My partner does not care either. I hope anyone who is having problems...or is debating speaking with a physican will listen to me. I have not been on the internet all week looking for ED causes...or thinking about it 24/7! I was beginning to slip into depressive thoughts and having massive anxiety over this. The doctor also said he would prescribe me medication as long as I need it....I hope it is sooner than later. Although, I will definitely keep those pills around for special occasions...we have had some serious fun! GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR>>>blumkin
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