it has nothing to do with porn actors. Most erections will point up. It sounds like you have a weak muscle where the base of the penis connects. Can't remember the name of it or the name of the condition. Not certain if there is anything that can be done. Check with your doctor.

I have the same problem...

I was talking to one urologist, and he said to me, it is a muscle (nothing to do with the actual penis) that causes the penis to hang down...

He said a surgical procedure can be done to cure it. I asked him if there are any risks, and he said no. I said I do not want more problems from any risk, he reassured me. For now I am waiting to see more on this...

If it comes in the way of sex, then I might opt for the procedure.

It also creates HUGE insecurity for me too... but I am going to research into it deeply, and get a view from another well known doctor...

ARE YOU GUYS KIDDING!?

That's not an insecurity! That's a blessing!

Most guys do stick straight up, it gets so hard that it hardly moves and when a girl is on top of a guy who is raised right up, to much movement is uncomfortable for the guy and can sometimes hurt.

You guys though, YOU would be able to do any position in any direction without pain, it's added flexibility and variety in sexual positions. BONUS.

Congrats!

You will learn like it, and you're girls definitely will!