Im a male age 19. I dont take medication
of any type.
I have this problem that i get and
erection, start to do the do with my
partner.
then a few minutes later, he goes limp
(without ejaculation).
it easy to then get him hard again, but as
soon as he goes back inside the vagina, he
decides to go soft again.
this will continue for about 40mins to and
hour, sometimes i will ejaculate,
sometimes i wont.
its quite embarrassing, and it causing a
bit of tension in our relationship (not
because she minds, she says its not a
problem, but because its making me not
want to even try anymore).
I find my partner really attractive and i
really want to have intercourse with her.
Do you think its psychological? or
physical?
Any help or suggestions will be
appreciated.
Thanks.
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pirate
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 2 Location: ,
thought i should add... Posted: 03-08-08 18:47pm
i talked to my twin brother about this,
and he says hes never experienced this
with his partner.
[edit 2]
i just had sex, and it all worked great.
The problem in the above post had been
going for a few weeks. i am still seeking
answers from anyone who wants to help me
out.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-09-08 18:58pm
You can call "it" a penis. That's not a
bad word. For a moment I thought you were
gay and talking about your partner when
you said "he gets limp", but when you
mentioned the vagina I realised you were
referring to your penis as "him". Haha!
It sounds like it's just anxiety to be
honest. As you become more relaxed with
your partner you will be able to stay hard
easier. How about stop trying to have sex?
Just let it happen; don't worry or focus
or stress about getting hard and staying
hard. Let it flow.
