Penis desensitized after ejaculation Posted: 04-08-08 23:16pm
Ok, so for the first time ever I was
totally desensitized after only one
ejaculation having sex with my gf and was
not able to achieve a second erection even
after an hour of waiting. This has never
been a problem for me and it is freaking
me out. The only difference between my GF
now and my past GF's is that I've had way
more protected sex with her than with my
ex's. In other words we started with
protected sex with my ex's and shortly
there after had unprotected sex. With my
current GF we've started with protected
sex and continued using condoms ever
since. Tonight was the very first time me
and my current GF had unprotected sex. My
question is: Is it possible that my penis
got so used to having sex with a condom,
that when the sensitivity went through the
roof without a condom that it was
overwhelmed after the first ejaculation
causing it to become desensitized?
Is having unprotected sex something my
penis would need to get used to because of
the change in sensitivity and because I've
been using protection for so long?
This is the only explanation I can
personally come up with. My GF and I have
always had great sex in fact its the best
sex either one of us has ever had, and we
love each other dearly so I fail to see
how it might be a mental block. All I know
is I went numb after the first ejaculation
and am only now starting to get some
pleasurable sensation back (2 hours
later). Please help me out. Any advice
would be greatly appreciated my friends.
Share with me your collective wisdom.
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MiseEire
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2008 Posts: 170
Posted: 04-09-08 08:39am
I honestly can't tell you because I myself
have only practised safe sex with condoms
but I'm told there is a bit of a
difference that takes a little bit of
getting used to. Don't worry about it that
much. It's not that big a step and you're
probably reading too much into it.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 04-12-08 16:49pm
Here's the best advice I can give you-
one time is never something to worry
about. If it keeps happening time after
time, then you've got something to worry
about. However, just once isn't bad
because it could have been caused by a
million different things.
Don't worry about it, shrug it off, and
your next time will be great!
