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Q: penis and vagina sex problem
asked by: Joey9725 on August 16th, 2008
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Hi,
Im 20 years old and i have been married for nearly a year my husband and i wanted to wait till marriage before we both had sex. We did wait and we are having trouble having sex. For some reason its hard for him to put his penis in, yes we do use lub land i have read up books and info on sex. we both get turned, and when its time to try and have intercourse its like the penis is hitting a brick wall and it feels tight and it hurts. I need any advice with people experiencing the same problem or have been through the situation before. Its very frustrating and i wish i knew how to have sex without it being difficult.
Thank you
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mominashoe replied on August 16th, 2008
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Alas the hollywood impression we have of sex just isn't for a lot of us.

Sometimes it takes time before you can both relax enough to be able to easily make it happen. I waited until after marriage too and it was no piece of cake! I thought of getting a book myself called Sex for Dummies...yes it exists lol. I've been married over 10 years and I want a book too Smile

I think this might be something that the people in women's sexual health might be able to answer, so I will copy your topic over there so that you can get more replies. I hope you are able to enjoy each other successfully soon.
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Maddie34 replied on August 17th, 2008
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How much foreplay takes place beforehand?

Does it hurt when your husband inserts his fingers?
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Joey9725 replied on August 22nd, 2008
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about 10-15 mins it does not take much.

It feels slighty uncomfortable when he puts his fingers in there and it hurts a lil.

Just don't know how to make the hole bigger??
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Sydney123456 replied on August 23rd, 2008
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I think you need to work on the fingers before you continue with the vagina. A vagina's walls have the ability to stretch...and by more foreplay along with slowly working your way up, your vagina will be able to comfortably have sex with your husband.

Honestly, as I said in my other thread, I think you and your husband need to spend A LOT more time on foreplay. I think spending entire nights just on foreplay (which can be a lot of fun!) will help you ease up.
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lotus130 replied on August 29th, 2008
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If your husband is circumcised, sometimes that can hurt the vagina. I know for me that's the case--it's not possible to have fully pleasurable sex without a foreskin, for me.
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Joey9725 replied on September 2nd, 2008
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We do spend lost of time on forplay but its like impossible to find the hole i dont understand its really werid. it seems like when im near the opening it just 2 small

Please anymore advice????
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Maddie34 replied on September 2nd, 2008
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Have you tried being on top?

This way you'll be in charge of everything and he won't be able to enter any further until you're ready.

Do you masturbate?
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horselover1 replied on September 3rd, 2008
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lube
r u making sure your getting lube inside your vagina? i had the same problem when i first started having sex trust me one day he will just go in and it will go all the way in but it takes some time
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Joey9725 replied on September 3rd, 2008
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Yes i mainly try on top its the easiest. No i don;t
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dr not replied on September 4th, 2008
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Wine, wine, more wine
Each of you have a glass of wine and massage each other.

Play some music and talk. The rest will work itself out.
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