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Q: past is most depressing
asked by: LonelyDaisy on October 2nd, 2008
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When I think about my past I get depressed b/c I think about the way I'm treated. I think about the people who I though were my friends bckstabbed me Mad , I never yet experience a sexual relationship b/c I keep getting rejected! Mad Whenever I C couples kissing in public I turn away b/c it makes me irritated & depressed. Sometimes whenever I C couples kissing I get so irritated that I want to throw something at them Mad Whenever I C a tv show, movies, or romance shows from my certain past I change the channel. I don't even like to hear music from my past either. I'm trying 2 focus on what is best 4 me now. The more I think about my past the more I suffer Sad
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NightStar
replied on October 2nd, 2008
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I too avoid watching people kiss on tv. I usually watch non-romantic shows like CSI Las Vagas, NY, and Miami. I also watch a lot of medical mystery shows, news, documentaries.

But I use the tv to drown out my thoughts so I don't think about the past. I have done stupid things that have made me feel ashamed and I just don't want to think about it, so I keep myself distracted all day on the computer or watching tv.

I am sorry that you have not found someone yet for yourself. I lost a marriage and that really brought me down. So I went on the internet and started looking for dates. I found a really nice guy, it took a bit of looking and dating idiots but I hung in there and now I am re-married.

All I can say is not to get hooked on a person's looks you will never find the right guy that way. Looks are not important it is what is inside that counts.
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danielv
replied on October 2nd, 2008
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i guess wanting to throw stuff at happy people is a pretty normal reaction to the situation. Smile

if you don't mind me asking, why do you think you keep getting rejected?
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LonelyDaisy
replied on October 2nd, 2008
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NightStar wrote:
I too avoid watching people kiss on tv. I usually watch non-romantic shows like CSI Las Vagas, NY, and Miami. I also watch a lot of medical mystery shows, news, documentaries. I keep myself distracted all day on the computer or watching tv.
I mostly watch other types of programs on tv that helps me block out my sorrows.rainbow I sometimes watch reality shows but only the adventure 1ns like Cops or The most shocking caught on video.


I also use the internet but not as much.



I mostly watch tv or listen to music. The only music I ever listen 2 now is smooth jazz or new age.


NightStar wrote:
I am sorry that you have not found someone yet for yourself. I lost a marriage and that really brought me down. So I went on the internet and started looking for dates. I found a really nice guy, it took a bit of looking and dating idiots but I hung in there and now I am re-married.
I'm dating some1 from work, he's a nice guy, no romance between us has happened yet, hopefully soon we'll develope a relationship.lovers If it weren't 4 that situation I probably would consider using the internet.luvcomp A long time ago I was using phone dating service and newspaper ads but none of them helped.

The phone dating 1 was the worst Bcause I keep getting 2many creeps who answered, so I no longer used the phone dating line.

NightStar wrote:
All I can say is not to get hooked on a person's looks you will never find the right guy that way. Looks are not important it is what is inside that counts.
I use 2B paticular about looks yrs ago but now it doesn't matter how the person looks, I just go for how he treats me, that's the most important thing. Once I focus on that it will B alot easier 4 me 2 find some1.blowkiss
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rooted
replied on October 3rd, 2008
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I think that's a good idea. IF you focus on what you WANT, you can attract it to yourself!
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