Me and my gf had been together for 6 months now. Everything's going swell, but as of late I'm starting to think more about her past.

4 months ago she told me about her past. She got pregnant, told me how he didn't pull out. Then she went on telling me that he didn't know how to care for her and the baby and that they weren't ready. So therefore she went for an abortion 1 month in.

I appreciated her honestly at the time. We talked.
She mentioned she would rather tell me about her past now so its off her chest, then to have to tell me months or years down the track.
I honestly wasn't bothered at the time. I think cause we were still in our honeymoon stage perhaps...

I think its bothering me due to a number of things.

She still bumps into him (but tells me everything which I am truly grateful for...)

Abortion to me is cruel. Why bring someone into this world when you're obviously not ready? I've also built this hatred towards her ex from what he did and how he treated her as well.

I see stretchmarks around her love handles, and tummy area which she had previously confirmed that it was from the pregnancy.


I don't really plan on speaking with her about this issue, as I feel it's with me only. If I brought it up with her, I feel she's going to feel really guilty and depressed.

I know its her past. I keep telling myself that. I keep telling myself she's become who she is because of her past. Live in learn etc etc.

I really need a second opinion or advice on how to alleviate negative thoughts on this...

Thankyou in advance