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paranoid delusional jealousy boyfriend, how can i help him

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my boyfriend and i have been going out for 6 months and i am on the brink with it all, he is ver paranoid and deluded and extremly jealous, my job requires my to go to the homes of my customers occasionaly male, this just flips my bfs lid, he starts interigating me, questioning me about things like , why you making yourself look pretty for them then if you are only going to work, and other comments like if we make new clientel when we are out he wants them to go through him then he can deal with it thru me n them, i had this company before i knew him, i cant hack it ne more hes paranoid im going to run off with someone else and doesnt like being away from me when i go to a girlfriends house, but when we are together he is the perfect boyfriend and hes just eveything i couldhv ever wished for we get on awesome and want all the same things from life, please help me:( i really know he wants to stop being like this, hes admitted hes in the wrong and wants to go to counselling but doesnt know how to go about it, thank mandy x
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replied March 7th, 2011
I've been there too and I'm only 16
I was dating a guy and he was a year older than me. He was amazing, funny, handsome, creative, and loving. But one day he became jealous. He made me delete all the guys numbers off my phone, he never let me be with anyone else. Then he began to pressure me into sex. Finally he began to hit me and push me. Your boyfriend sounds very similar to my ex and it's going to end badly. I would suggest saying something and talking to a professional about this, you are leaving yourself in danger Sad please think about your safety and your mental well-being.

Best of luck, Andrea Smile
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