I got the Paragard three days ago. I have tried the pill and NuvaRing, and came to the conclusion to try Paragard as a last resort. I am notorious for forgetting the pill. I am awful at it. I OD'ed on it once because I didn't understand what to do when I missed a pill. Not fun. The NuvaRing was fabulous, but after a little over 3 years with it, some side effects got to me. My cramps became so much worse and my hips started to swell. No one could explain it. So I went back on the pill for a while until I got the nerve to ask for an IUD.
Now, my younger sister gave birth at 17 and asked for an IUD from our doctor. She said no, because she was too young. Bull s*&@. We deal with the nurse practitioner at our office, and had never met that actual GYN. The GYN is old and very conservative. My sister had to go to her OB to get Mirena. She experienced a lot of pain in the beginning but no longer gets a period. Her skin problems are ridiculous though.
When I finally got the nerve to ask for one, I planned my approach well. I made sure to bring up that I had tried many other options first. Amazingly, the GYN approved it. We chose Paragard because I already have bad skin, and Mirena would only make it worse. I had to wait an entire month to get an appointment, but it did happen.
The insertion appointment was difficult. I had never met the GYN before that day. She asked me several times if I was sure this is what I wanted, and then went on about the price of an IUD and how you must be sure you want it before wasting the money. Are you kidding me?!? My health is more important than the money.
The insertion itself, for lack of a better word... sucked. They gave me local anesthesia to dull the pain. She started too quickly though. She started the insertion but it hurt so bad I cried out. Given that I have never had children it explains some of the pain. After a few more minutes, she started again and I just bit the bullet. I bled a lot. I'm a bleeder anyway, but I messed up and took Aleve instead of Advil. I should have known naproxen would make me bleed, but I was only thinking about the pain. After about 15 minutes of trying to let the pain subside, I drove myself home.. Note: get someone to drive you. I had awful cramping for the next day and a half and its beginning to get better. I notice that when I feel as if I have to urinate it is a bit painful and the actual urgency is off. I feel like I'm bursting when I am definitely not. I checked for the strings and I could feel them. Haven't tested out how it feels with intimacy yet. We'll see. Advil will be my friend this week.