I had Paragard placed last Thursday. I didn't know what to expect going in to this, really. I researched everything, but everyone is different. I had no disorders or anything, I just wanted an easy, safe, hormone free birth control. Paragard seemed perfect, my doctor and I agreed.
The day it was placed was excruciating. The procedure itself was awful. My doctor had given me a sheet saying how I'd be able to go back to work or school immediately after, and that is crap. Plan to take the next few days off after placement if you can. I do have ovarian cycsts that make my period worse every few months. I imagine that pain is like birth, so this was ten times worse than that. It hurt all the way through my back as well.
Strangely enough, after I had a bowel movement, I felt perffectly fine. The next day the same thing happened. Back pain, cramping, moving was so painful, and then I went to the bathroom and I was fine.
Day three, and the weird pains started. My hips would ache a little, where my legs meet my pelvis all the way around, like a band, even my outter lips. But this wasn't much of a hindrance and it's touch and go.
Today I've aquired a leg pain. It feels like when your legs get restless. Just that jumpy, unsettled feeling from the top of my thigh to my knee and only in one leg. This stops when I rest for awhile, but when I starting moving again (and between classes and work, I'm usually moving) it aches.
I've had a bit of spotting, I guess. The discharge is that weird brownish color when you reach the end of your period, you know? It's been going on two days now on and off. Still, not too big a deal for me.
Really, despite all of that, it's perfectly fine. I'm still a little tender, can't put too much pressure on my abdomin, but otherwise fine. The pains are weird and I've contacted my doctor, but he's busy delivering a baby today. lol It's nothing hindering from my life. And it has only been four days. If this is the worst of it, I can live with it for ten years, at least.
I'm sorry some other people have had horrible experiences with this product. I noticed that it does say (on the FDA website) that most women, due to pain and bleeding, remove it within the first year.
And, OP, if your doctor talked to you in a manner you found condescending, get a new one. No one should be treated that way and you should not have to explain yourself, repeatedly or otherwise.
I hope my experience so far has helped someone. If anything else happens, I'll be sure to make note of it. I found this place really helpful for me.