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Q: Pangender
asked by: diamondsz on March 5th, 2009
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First off pangender individuals don't classify themselves as female or male, I understand I was born female but my charactheristics, lead towards both or some may refer to me as a "tomboy or andro."

So I am pangendered, some people refer to me as using this term to serve my lust, desires or even as a fetish and I will say differently. When I look in a mirror I see both my feminine attributes as well as my masculine attributes and have come to terms with being unisex I guess. When I look for a relationship, I look for a monogamous relationship, which is probably why my arms flail up at the idea of it being a fetish.

I am attracted to a very small percentage of men but I'm also attracted to woman and transgendered males.

I was very much so born female, although my thought, my charactheristics and looks can come off quite the other way depending on my mood.

Pangendered people are a minority, not many of us, I have met one up to date and would love to hear from others or even if you're questioning it.

~Just to add since their is so many different/similar names it can also be considered "bigender" but you can be bigender and not bi-sexual (David Bowie would be a perfect example.
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TigerBIrl
replied on March 16th, 2009
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I had identified as "half-boy, half-girl" ever since I was a small child. It was only recently that I found out there was a term for it and that I wasn't alone. I am engaged to a trans girl and so we can ALMOST understand each other there. Some day I might want to take hormones or have surgery to be more masculine (I, too was born very feminine)but right now I deal with what I was given.
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acopyofacopy
replied on March 19th, 2009
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I am biologically female as well. I couldn't imagine myself with male genitalia, but I wish I was flat-chested and called "sir" more often. I keep my hair short and always wear pants; I wish I could switch to male underwear, too. But I can't choose between genders at all. I can't define myself with one or the other. Being more strongly attracted to women although I'm bisexual, I usually assume the "prince charming" role in the relationship, as I've been told. I'm not what people would refer to as "butch", although I do have a ridiculous collection of plaid shirts - I wear skinny jeans, put on makeup every day, and occasionally enjoy dressing up in frilly dresses when I'm alone (which, strangely, feels like crossdressing...) I'm just very boyish in my manners and interests, while keeping distinct female characteristics. So I really don't know. I can never really decide what I want people to consider me as. I want to be seen as a girl when I'm attracted to one, and I want to be seen as a boy when I'm attracted to one. (Which makes me twice as gay rather than bisexual?? Argh.) I wish someone would get it and explain it to me.
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homerx
replied on March 19th, 2009
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acopyofacopy wrote:
. I want to be seen as a girl when I'm attracted to one, and I want to be seen as a boy when I'm attracted to one. (Which makes me twice as gay rather than bisexual?? Argh.) I wish someone would get it and explain it to me.
I can tell you what you R...ADORABLE! inlove You are the perfect person...love yourself...which I think you must because U R so witty and your writing is like meeting you almost.I think your great no matter if you are playing the part of the woman or the man...or a mix in between....it reminds me of the song from HEDWIG & THE ANGRY INCH...Hedwig and the Angry Inch - Origin of Love

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YO9FpWX57E


When the earth was still flat,
And the clouds made of fire,
And mountains stretched up to the sky,
Sometimes higher,
Folks roamed the earth
Like big rolling kegs.
They had two sets of arms.
They had two sets of legs.
They had two faces peering
Out of one giant head
So they could watch all around them
As they talked; while they read.
And they never knew nothing of love.
It was before the origin of love.

The origin of love

And there were three sexes then,
One that looked like two men
Glued up back to back,
Called the children of the sun.
And similar in shape and girth
Were the children of the earth.
They looked like two girls
Rolled up in one.
And the children of the moon
Were like a fork shoved on a spoon.
They were part sun, part earth
Part daughter, part son.

The origin of love

Now the gods grew quite scared
Of our strength and defiance
And Thor said,
"I'm gonna kill them all
With my hammer,
Like I killed the giants."
And Zeus said, "No,
You better let me
Use my lightening, like scissors,
Like I cut the legs off the whales
And dinosaurs into lizards."
Then he grabbed up some bolts
And he let out a laugh,
Said, "I'll split them right down the middle.
Gonna cut them right up in half."
And then storm clouds gathered above
Into great balls of fire

And then fire shot down
From the sky in bolts
Like shining blades
Of a knife.
And it ripped
Right through the flesh
Of the children of the sun
And the moon
And the earth.
And some Indian god
Sewed the wound up into a hole,
Pulled it round to our belly
To remind us of the price we pay.
And Osiris and the gods of the Nile
Gathered up a big storm
To blow a hurricane,
To scatter us away,
In a flood of wind and rain,
And a sea of tidal waves,
To wash us all away,
And if we don't behave
They'll cut us down again
And we'll be hopping round on one foot
And looking through one eye.

Last time I saw you
We had just split in two.
You were looking at me.
I was looking at you.
You had a way so familiar,
But I could not recognize,
Cause you had blood on your face;
I had blood in my eyes.
But I could swear by your expression
That the pain down in your soul
Was the same as the one down in mine.
That's the pain,
Cuts a straight line
Down through the heart;
We called it love.
So we wrapped our arms around each other,
Trying to shove ourselves back together.
We were making love,
Making love.
It was a cold dark evening,
Such a long time ago,
When by the mighty hand of Jove,
It was the sad story
How we became
Lonely two-legged creatures,
It's the story of
The origin of love.
That's the origin of love.

Peace and Love...and PRIDE ,
Homer rainbow
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acopyofacopy
replied on March 19th, 2009
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Oh wow, I love that song! I've been meaning to watch that movie for ages, but never had the opportunity to.

Thank you so much for the nice comments. I'm not really a confident person, so they were definitely appreciated, haha. (:
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homerx
replied on March 20th, 2009
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Hedwig & The Angry Inch
If you can, see it! It is funny and touching and deep and ...I LOVE it! One of my all time favorite movies EVER! The music is awesome and the movie is one you can watch over and over and always get something new out of it...it ROCKS!
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