First off pangender individuals don't classify themselves as female or male, I understand I was born female but my charactheristics, lead towards both or some may refer to me as a "tomboy or andro."
So I am pangendered, some people refer to me as using this term to serve my lust, desires or even as a fetish and I will say differently. When I look in a mirror I see both my feminine attributes as well as my masculine attributes and have come to terms with being unisex I guess. When I look for a relationship, I look for a monogamous relationship, which is probably why my arms flail up at the idea of it being a fetish.
I am attracted to a very small percentage of men but I'm also attracted to woman and transgendered males.
I was very much so born female, although my thought, my charactheristics and looks can come off quite the other way depending on my mood.
Pangendered people are a minority, not many of us, I have met one up to date and would love to hear from others or even if you're questioning it.
~Just to add since their is so many different/similar names it can also be considered "bigender" but you can be bigender and not bi-sexual (David Bowie would be a perfect example.