I've had fairly uncomfortable pap smears in the past, probably because my cervix is hidden. it is tilted badly enough that the first doctor who tried to get a sample couldn't even find the thing. this time, the pressure and pain were really bad and it took her a long time to be able to complete the exam.
and THEN, I had sex for the first time twice after that. That too didn't feel great. It felt like he was hitting something deep inside which I don't think is the typical sort of pain women are supposed to experience their first time. i also spotted a little afterwards both times.
Is this a leftover from the exam, a "first time" issue, or the fact that my innards are screwed up?