Painful pap smear and sex Posted: 05-24-08 15:02pm
I've had fairly uncomfortable pap smears
in the past, probably because my cervix is
hidden. it is tilted badly enough that
the first doctor who tried to get a sample
couldn't even find the thing. this time,
the pressure and pain were really bad and
it took her a long time to be able to
complete the exam.
and THEN, I had sex for the first time
twice after that. That too didn't feel
great. It felt like he was hitting
something deep inside which I don't think
is the typical sort of pain women are
supposed to experience their first time.
i also spotted a little afterwards both
times.
Is this a leftover from the exam, a "first
time" issue, or the fact that my innards
are screwed up?
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-25-08 19:25pm
Have you tried other positions or even
tried not having your guy go as deep?
Honestly, any pain/blood you've had on
your frist time could have been from any
of your three options. You could have been
a little irratated from your pelvic exam
or he bumped your cervix a little faster
because its in a weird spot. As for the
first time possibilty, it again would
depend. I had different pains my first
time that were gone the second time
around.
Try some different things, I'm sure you
just need to find the right angle or depth
and things will go better. If not, then
check in again with a doctor. I hope
things work out!
