So I just lost my virginity- kind of. My bf has a big and thick penis (8in. long and 6in wide) so I knew it was going to be painful. He also was afraid he was going to hurt me, so we went really, really slow. He only got half way in though before I couldn't take the pain anymore and I started to bleed. And I bled a pool of blood. He was very nervious for me, and I continued to bleed for the next day. It's lite bleeding now (20hrs later). I am still in some pain though. I talked to some friends and they said I shouldn't have bled that much. So my question is...is it normal to bleed that much? Or did he tear something in me? and How can we make it easier/not as painful to have sex? Thanks for your help.