If you are doing it right - enough foreplay, enough lubrication, correct hole (LOL) it is time for a doctor to take another look.

The reasons can be many and sometimes trying a different position can help a little. You on top where you can control the depth, angle and speed might be the easiest way to see if he is causing the problem.

So many of a woman's problems are within herself during this time in her life...You fight who you are...You forget that sexual woman of old...You are tired...You work hard and have three children...It is difficult to find that place in your mind that you used to know to feel sexual...This is a temporary feeling that can grow more permanent unless you find yourself back in your yesterdays...You need the want of him that you used to have...You need to open your mind and your soul so that it doesn't hurt...You need to make this a hot and erotic experience like you used to be...You don't want to discourage his sexuality at this point, for he soon will be traveling his own road of need in staying hard....Then he will need you...

Get some Porn to watch with him if you need to...Go around without panties on and turn yourself on as your own form of foreplay...Find that hot young babe that you used to be....Don't loose it...It is far to hard to find again....

Caroline