Hey, I'm a 20 year old male and I'm having some serious sexual concerns. No matter how hard i try i can never achieve orgasm or ejaculate. Since age 13 i haven't really masturbated much because it just does nothing for me. I recently had sex for the first time with the same outcome. What usually happens is the more aroused i get, the more blood gets pumped into my penis until it gets to a point of extreme pain, and if anything touches it at that point, not matter how softly it is very painful. Even when my partner began performing oral sex, i had to ask her to stop because of the pain i was in.

I need serious help but I'm too embarrassed to go to a doctor.