I recently lost my virginity some 2 months back and while doing it, it hurt but the pain wasn't unbearable. I dont know whether my my hymen is broken.I did not bleed.But the penis had entered in.However me and boyfriend went to have sex again the next time I did want to. There was foreplay and lubrication but when he put his finger in, it hurt a LOT. He couldn't get it in more then maybe and inch and a half. So he tried again this time with more lubrication and he got in and stayed there for a minute or so but the pain was still there. I was really frustrated because I did want to do it so we kept trying when he finally made enough to room to penetrate me the pain again was almost unbearable. He stayed in me for me a few a minutes and the pain was fading however it felt nothing like the first time and I kept getting really tense. We tried different positions but nothing really worked. I guess I felt guilty cause I didn't wanted to disapoint him which added more to my tension. I'm worried there's something wrong down there because even now it feels uncomfortable and painful to put a finger in. I was also diagnosed with PCOS a year ago.Now my boyfriend wonders whether im still a virgin or not.Please help me and tell me whether is it a symptom of elastic hymen.