Ok, so I am still young,im a virgin, and I am not planning yet on having sex, but what is a good age, or apropriate one to have sex? Also, I know most womens wont bleed and it wont hurt but if I do bleed and It will hurt, how would the pain feel? Please describe it. I am freeked out and dont wanna be disapointed. Thank you.
I lost my hymen before I ever had sex so I don't know how it feels. I've been told that it feels like exactly what it is- a burning, stretching sensation from trying to force a large object into a small hole. lol
The appropriate age to have sex is when you are ready emotionally and can do so responsibly- when you are knowlegeable enough and willing to use the appropriate birth control, when you understand all the implications of sex...
I watched a recent episode of Oprah where a pair of 14 year olds said they were ready to have sex. Dr. Laura Berman was a guest on the show and asked them some very important questions. Here they are:
Why do you want to take it to the next level now?
How long do the two of you plan to stay together?
(The girl thought they would be together for a long time- years- while the boy expected that they would be together for a few MONTHS!)
Are you prepared for the emotions you might feel afterward?
Have you talked about condoms?
Are you prepared with two forms of birth control?
Have you talked about what happens if you get pregnant?
Do you understand sexually transmitted diseases?
Are both of you absolutely sure that neither one of you has been with anyone else sexually in any way?
hmmmmmmmm some girls lost their hymens without sex sometimes it is due to exercise or riding or any that kind of activities, the pain is related to ur body its pain badly but for the first time not after the second and so on and the good age for the sex is that when u are responsible and have enough knowledge about sex and also you have control during sex the pain during first time is like burning or like some1 puts a hard thing in a small hole very tightly hopefully you are satisfy with my answer
there typically is no good or appropriate age for sex,
its mostly if you can deal with the possible out comes of your and your partner having sex. and its better if you keep your viriginty until you really feel like your with the right person. For me it hurt alot because i was very tight, but if you masterbate your a little more loose. it felt like someone was putting alot pressure for the first 5 mins but after it was all good. I didnt bleed so i cant tell you about that. But sex is very emotional, i know my mother said that to me 38574764756 times and i truly didnt believe her, but it is. you have to make sure your first time is with the right person. the last thing you want is to be used.
get ready girl it real pain,
your man should be very gentle for you to relax, he can start by using his fingers,first one finger and he go on like that until you feel ready for him to come inside you..you might bleed but that not a must, my bf did it very gently though it was painful but later i was ready and we enjoyed it!