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Q: pain during sex after abortion
asked by: lis7654 on June 19th, 2009
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i had my first abortion when i was 17 i went to a clinic that was referred to by a friend who said she had done it there about 3 times and it was a good clinic. they didnt really explain to me what they were going to do that day. the next day i went in for my appointment and next thing i new i had my legs up and they had injected me with what they put you to sleep. i woke up like 2 hours later felt cramps had my period and felt nauseous. once i threw up yellow the nausea ended i felt pretty normal i had regular cramps and i had my period for about 2 weeks. i took the medication they told me to take and i didnt drink dairy because they told me not to until i finished my medication. i thought everything went great. they told me to comeback in 30 days for a doctor check up. i didnt have the time nor the day off so i never went. im 19 now and ever scene i had the abortion im hardly ever in the mood. and its not my boyfriend iam just never in the mood. when i have sex it hurts. i never get wet enough so that hurts me and then it sometimes feel like i a bump inside of me. i ask my boyfriend if he feels anything weird when he is inside of me and he says he dosent feel anything but it feels like he just hits something that i guess burns i dont no why i thought i had a yeast infection so i used a over the counter monestat. but even that didnt help. we use alot of lubricant it helps alittle with the pain but i want to have pain free sex!!!! oh and ever scence i had an abortion i havent been able to have a orgasm. ive been with my boyfriend scene before the abortion so i no its not him he use to give me orgasm at least 2 times during sex but now i get zero!! oh and i forgot to mention that not to long ago i was having sex and after we were done i went to clean my self up and i had little bit of blood coming from my vagina. what do these signs mean
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stormchaser404
replied on July 2nd, 2009
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The little bit of blood is likely from slight vaginal tearing because you aren't wet enough. Use some extra lube.

The bigger issues is the lack of desire and pain during intercourse and lack of natural lubrication...which I'd BET all has a common cause. The chances of all those symptoms being caused by an abortion are VERY small...at least the chances of there being a PHYSICAL cause. There is one thing that can cause all of those symptoms...psychology. The trauma of having to have an abortion has caused a fear of pregnancy, which has killed your desire and your ability to produce natural lubrication...which causes painful intercourse. Abortion is a traumatic event for everyone who has one, and I'm sure it is a struggle...I'm a guy so I cant say I know what it is like to have an abortion...but several people I know VERY closely have had them...so I can feel for you...and I do. Maybe try some counseling?
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