Have you ever had problems with tampons?
Do you masturbate on your own and have you ever had any problems inserting your own fingers?

Did you use store bought lubrication at all?

I never use tampons..
I inserted my finger once (about 1 inch) and I feel the same pain..
No, I didnt use store bought lubrication..

You need to use store bought lubrication.

Did he actually get his penis entirely inside you or did you need to stop?

He needs to stop.. But I cant stand the pain even he inserted 1.5 inches of his penis and he pulled it out immediately.. If I spread my legs wider, I'll feel more pain..

You just need to go slow. He needs to be very gentle and you will probably have to live with some pain to start. The pain will ease as you loosen up. You have to do it regularly because some girls tighten up real fast, you may be one.

Ok, sex is probably going to need to hold off just a bit longer.

Try starting small-- like a finger. You can do this on your own or with your partner, but you should probably try your own fingers first since they are probably smaller. If you're with your partner make sure he does still does a lot of foreplay so that you're aroused--- it helps! Use a lot of lubrication and slowly insert your finger until you start to feel pain, then stop and wait until your vagina relaxes around your finger and then continue like that. When you get comfortable with one finger then add another all up until you're comfortable with your partner's size. You'll need lots of lubrication-- I know I already said that, but I can't stress it enough.

You need to remember to relax your vaginal muscles while doing this. If you're tense, then it will hurt no matter how small the object is. Take deep breaths and go slowly.

I also suggests you schedule an appointment with a gyno. I'm guessing you haven't had a pelvic exam yet, but since you're having sex it's a good time to have one.

Thanks for your info.. =)

If it is hurting, it could be because you are nervous hun. It is completely natural to be nervous if it is your first time, because it's a new experience for you.
If you are nervous, your natural response is to become tense. Try and relax. The most important thing is not to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, and if it hurts too much then stop. If it is your first time, it will probably hurt a bit, it does for most girls first time.

Lots and lots of foreplay! If you are really aroused you will probably relax a bit more and your vagina will become naturally lubricated and less tense. I agree with Maddie, take it really slowly, don't rush and don't do anything that you are uncomfortable with. If you are using your fingers, stop the moment it starts to feel uncomfortable and try again when you are feeling relaxed.