I am hoping by posting this message that I may find a way out of my dire plight. Sex with my husband has become torture with excruciating pain. A few years ago as a result of cut effected on my vagina for giving birth, two stitches were put thereafter. One resorbed completely, the second got infected and had to be done over again. Everything appeared ok, it looked resolved and physicalexamination shows no trace. However since then I have experienced pain during vaginal intercourse. The pain is at the spot the stitch was. Feels like a needle tearing into me when he penetrates me and on each of his thrust. When I manage to get him to accept to go in softly and slowly and after my full lubrication, the pain is much less and I can take a little pleasure. He however goes for abrupt dry penetration and it hurts so terribly. Since two years he has stopped having vaginal intercourse with me and goes for abrupt dry anal penetration. I did not want, but accepted reluctantly. He brutally penetrates my anus dry and I suffer excruciating pain. Can anyone please help. How do I manage all this. Can the pain at the stitch point be neutralised?