I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and recently became sexually active. He's the first person I've ever been with and i mean everything. I know im a little overweight but i feel like im beautiful. So when we have sex i feel confident but am shy to be on top. My boyfriend has asked me but i always reject and try to please him in another way, which always works. I do believe he wants to be with me but im jus a little insecure about my weight.
I feel ya honey! I too am a little overweight and get self-conscience about being on top, but you know what, just go for it! Once you are on top and everything is going you will love it and forget, more importantly your man will love it! I hope you try it out, and good luck!
heres a tip..get him on a couch somewhere so that he is sitting up instead of flat on his back...i've found that not only is it better, but also I'm more confident that way, plus he's happy bc he gets alittle break
Honey, its seem like your boyfriend love you for you! if he has already seen your body then its no different, i could even go as far to say as that arouses him more, cause i can tell you I am over weight myself, and I used to be the exact same, covers over lights off etc. But now I don't mind, because he loves it!