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I'm 19 and I never been in a relationship before, mainly because i'm not really ready to. But recently i'm been so incredibly in the mood that I can't control it, and i refuse to look at porn so I do cyber sex instead, but is probably just as bad. However, I do have a really close friend and sometimes we like to talk dirty. But it's getting to the point where I can no longer control it, the only way I feel better is masturbating. Which is fine, I masturbate every now and then, I know it's good for guys cause it cleans out the bad stuff and reduces prostate cancer.

If I just masturbate in bed or something, I don't ejaculate much, but say if i'm talking with a girl online or something, I ejaculate a lot. But it's like my hormones are good crazy, I don't normally feel like this, at least not all the time. It's like I can't control it anymore. It's getting so bad where it's affecting my life a little and I don't want to do this anymore.

Is it just because i'm 19 and it's a sign that my body wants to mate or something? Cause i'm not like this, I play guitar and it's been affecting my skill. It's gotta stop, I do enjoy being turned on and stuff, but not every day. I can't even watch movies that have really pretty woman in it, cause it's gets me turned on really fast.

Like when I see girls my age, in my mind it's like bang her, bang her, you know dirty thoughts, I don't want to think like that. I'm not like that normally, but why am I like this all of a sudden?

The only thing I can think of is that my body just wants to have sex and it would probably go away. But i'm not ready for that?

What can I do?
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replied August 18th, 2010
Hi there. You are normal. It might help if you ejaculated a bit more often. As you grow older things will settle down a bit.

Dr Andrew Rynne.
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replied August 18th, 2010
Hi there, I agree with the doctor it's what happens to a lot of people when they deal with porn. You are having live porn on line or on the phone. It kind of gives you sex colored glasses or lenses to see women through. I believe you can control it if you really want to. Don't do it anymore, that is have cyber sex. We all have sexual thoughts but it's like eating sweets, it tastes so good you want more, but if you over indulge you make yourself sick, if it becomes a steady diet you become unhealthy, or unbalanced. Unbalanced is a good word. Sex is healthy in the right place in your life. My personal thoughts are it is best in marriage, because it is something very intimate and beautiful to share with one person. You learn more about each other physically when you share your body with one person you trust and love. It's the most intimate gift you can give each other. A certain amount of masturbation is normal. You are learning about your body and the physical mechanics of it all. Fantasizing gets out of hand very easily. Porn and cyber sex are the same. You're even more involved in the later. Men can easily end up with sexual dysfunctions from these and eventually they can't have normal sex with a woman and it is very sad that they can't enjoy the pleasure and intimacy with the closest one to their heart. I was recently told that there is ejaculation for a man but there is also another kind of a true orgasm where his whole body and mind are involved when he's giving his love to his spouse that goes far beyond just an ejaculation, and porn can rob you of this most pleasurable gift. There is a growing number of men who can't climax without having to have porn involved so they can achieve an erection. Do you really want to share your bed or where ever, with all these others in the porn you look at and the one you love? You know who's making money off this besides prostitutes, and porn companies? The pharmaceutical companies that make medicine for E D. It will take a purposeful discipline of your mind and body to keep things in moderation, but it can be done. What ever is good and lovely and pure...think on these things... Fill your mind with other thoughts. Keep your mind busy and occupied with other things you enjoy doing.
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replied August 19th, 2010
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your right there, your still young, you can encounter many stuffs as you grow.
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replied August 7th, 2012
Hi there I'm 16 and I get the same feeling I jackoff almost everyday and ejaculate a lot.. I feel that I do it so much I will run out of it. I'm almost always horny and start texting my girl friends and they get mad bc they don't like talking dirty and porn gets annoying is their anything else out there that can satisfy me?
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