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Q: Over Masturbation consequences and remedies

asked by: h2o on February 16th, 2009

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I Damn care for all. i am against masturbation as it destroyed me and my carrier. I lost my self.i lost the strong, athletic, intelligent, witty "ME".i m in field of accountancy student and now i repent of my back days FOOLS. I lost my abilities. Failures are my fate now.There s no use of repentence now.
Try googling around consequences of masturbation, u will find many medical websites telling about results of o-masturbation.
if there s nothing like o-masturbation then why these sites crying about? there are also many website where victims of O-masturbation yelling now e.g see anael

OK masturbate u will have less chances of prostate cancer

GOOD!! yeah i find a reson to masturbate Smile

but u will surly get:

-Weak erection / impotence
-eraly ejaculation
-curved penis
-loss of memory
-digestive system
-early white hair/beard
-sadness
-loss of self respect
-fatigue/ weakness
-No mucsles
-shameful matrimonial life
-semen in urine
-many many more believe me as i got them.

Do it at cost of above.
This is a horrible addiction more addictive and destorable then any other addiction. opium/Heroine/alcohal drugs etc coz you have to make ur mind ,go and buy it, but masturbation ...
u need your hand and your body... There is nothing like LESS MASTURBATION ,though Some believe there s nothing like OVER MASTURBATION. You masturbate in morning , u urges for it in noon. watch a porn movie in afternoon..then.. and u also going to bed.
Coz u and ur hand all this addiction needed.
I am in this addiction , i used to make promises to myslf of not doing it daily and next day i broke them... I m invovled in it for 10 years. Now i have to say good bye to it.
I left this habit (i m 24 now) and now i m healing day by day. i am getting back ALL i lost.
i m posting my findings of how to get rid of this bad bad habit and how to get and Recover the STRONG AND HANDSOME "YOU".

Those out there trying to get out of this lusty , horrible addiction , this is for them. and those still advocating masturbation, those stubborn "Do it baby, 10 times a day , you will
have more enjoyment, less and less chances of getting prostate cancer"

OK
firts of all first medicine to get recovery is your "WILL POWER" that will cost 0$ availalbe only at your own shop.
Be a MAN . Man's word i will not do it for 8 months, come one you can control it for 235 days, to enjoy rest of your life.

*Avoid seeing PORN. PLZ

*A simple natural remedy that will sound no harm as you know its ingrediants
250 gram yougurt 3 teaspoon Hust two or three bananas.
mix in a bowl and eat before breakfast and in afternoon after 2-3 hrs of noon-meal.

*Take banana milk shake few times (voluntry)

*Avoid tea , excess meat, alcohal and masturbation.

*Yoga and excercises meditation.

*Be Vegitarian for a day make lady finger in a once or twice a week.

Promise 2 urslf that your hand will not touch your penis, again it should be Mans word.

Believe me Bros all who are suffering from after effects, will start getting healing.i am not insane , i consumed 2 hours thinking and writing this article, i want every one to be

happy and healthy. i m not selling my herbal products. Nor a rabbi priest Mulla or saint.
A X-masturbater who suffered now trying to quit.
If some find it useful do comment.

And all those advocate masturbation ,this article is for those who suffer from after effects like me.

Good LUCK!!
Take care of Your Self

Users who thank h2o for this post: mu5ab8ai

Replies(32)

h2o

replied on February 16th, 2009

New User

by hust i mean Isapghol husk or psyllium husk.
sorry for that

Muslim

replied on March 27th, 2009

New User

Good job

Masturbation is outright addictive. I am also a sufferer like you. I am struggling. Keep up and never do it again.

alienman423

replied on May 5th, 2009

New User

Nonsense

This is a load of bunk. The physical symptoms you listed are *not* linked with masturbation, and the emotional ones are likely unfortunate results of your upbringing. There have been numerous studies to show that most males masturbate (do most males have the symptoms you write of?), and moreover, there has been *no* evidence that the purported negative side effects you list have any basis in reality (and people have tried to produce it).

-Weak erection / impotence

--No evidence. But if you are obsessed with how masturbation is supposedly crippling your sexual health, I am not at all surprised that it affects your performance with partners.

-eraly ejaculation

--No evidence. On the contrary, masturbation has often been touted as a way to practice controlling orgasm as a *countermeasure* against premature ejaculation.

-curved penis

--Only if you *injure* your penis. The vast majority of cases of curvature in penises are natural in origin and unrelated to masturbation. (What kind of wanking were you up to, anyway?)

-loss of memory
--No evidence. But if you are super-anxious about this supposedly terrible act that is taking over your life, then this in itself can impact your memory.
See http://menshealth.about.com/od/sexualhealt h/f/masturbation9.htm

-digestive system
--Masturbation will give me a digestive system...? Well, at any rate, I know that it has no effect on the one I already have. Did you go to a doctor with digestive problems, only to have him tell you to lay off of touching yourself?

-early white hair/beard
--No evidence.

-sadness
If this is the case, it is because of your own beliefs about masturbation and not a physiological result of it.

-loss of self respect
--See above.

-fatigue/ weakness
--While you can certainly tire yourself out masturbating (again, what crazy stuff have you been up to?), there is absolutely no evidence that it causes long-term weakness.

-No mucsles
--No evidence. If anything, it will develop your arm muscles. Your lack of muscles almost certainly result from a lack of physical labor or working out.

-shameful matrimonial life
--Only if your wife shares similar beliefs. But I realize that much of this problem is cultural in origin.

-semen in urine
--There is leftover semen in your urethra after you ejaculate that comes out the next time you urinate. This is not a long-term "side-effect" of masturbation.

I want you to realize that masturbation has absolutely no causative role in the physical symptoms you have listed here. Ask yourself, for example, how masturbation could reduce your muscle mass, based on your understanding of muscle growth and loss. The emotional symptoms result from your guilt over masturbating because of these myths you have come to believe -- myths that are likely perpetuated by a religious or cultural orthodoxy.

What causes you to associate those things with masturbation? It would be one thing If you masturbated, went to bed, and woke up with grey hair. But I think you can see the mistake in taking *everything that you perceive to be wrong in your life* and concluding that they must all be a result of masturbation, simply because you have heard somewhere that it is bad.

The fact is, masturbation is a normal and healthy act that most people in the world partake in. I hope that no one reads the OP's post and denies themselves (or others) a perfectly natural, pleasurable gift of the body.

worrywart01

replied on May 5th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

agreed with alienman..the symptoms you described are not directly linked to over masterbation..actually one made me laugh
"semen in urine"..the ONLY way thats possible is if some semen is still in the penis and gets cleared out when you pee..semen cannot get into your bladder and into your urine...also, my bf masterbates VERY often and let me tell you..he is NOT incompotent and does NOT have a weak erection...also..masterbating will not curve your penis...the only fact you stated is that YES it may cause some fatigue from doing it alot! haha...the rest are FALSE claims..

concernedn

replied on May 5th, 2009

Experienced User

Morally Unacceptable Spiritually Sinful

h2o,
I think alienman423 and worrywart01 are right from a medical perspective. However, by saying that, I don't mean I am ready to accept masturbation as being "MORALLY" acceptable as well. Since the harmful effects of masturbation (or for that matter excessive masturbation) are yet to be proven you can not state them to argue that masturbation is unacceptable. I agree with worrywart01 that excessive masturbation can cause some fatigue. I can only somewhat agree with loss of self-respect and sadness since the act of masturbation is morally unacceptable so it might make you feel guilty. As far as the other points are concerned, I am still wating to see if medical science can prove them. So for the moment masturbation is not medically harmful at the same time it is morally not acceptable as well. We should also consider the fact that if there is no harmful effect of masturbating, there is also no harmful effect of NOT masturbating at all. As far as prostrate cancer is concerned, I recently consulted a urologist and he told me there is NO harmful effect at all if someone does not masturbate at all. Yes, if we don't masturbate at all, the sperm will continue to be produced but still it will not be able to cause any harm since when the sperm production reaches a certain excessive level it will be ejaculated in the form of wet dream during sleep. In summary, if you want to prove masturbation to be unacceptable to somebody you can't do it from a medical perspective but you may do so from a spiritual or moral perspective. In my opinion, masturbation is MORALLY UNACCEPTABLE and SPRITUALLY SINFUL. So I am against masturbation.

healthy_mind

replied on May 12th, 2009

New User

belief and science

don't share personal beliefs in scientific health discussion please. its up to you whether u like masturbating or not. only if you masturbate too much and couldn't have sex with your wife than you'll get white hair and muscle loss, digestion problem cos u r damn stress depressed that ur wife/gf cheated on you that u have no choice but to stop masturbating by watching porn while she's gone shopping. P.S Morallity is individual perception. Masturbation is good for puberty boys so they don't drool over when they saw chic with miniskirt or even for some guys to be developed become a pervert/rapist. That's why people call it "RELIEVE".

JavaMissus

replied on May 12th, 2009

Moderator

Re: belief and science

healthy_mind wrote:

I agree with your post....I would say in the course of all of our years of marriage that my husband has cum during the night maybe ten times...I have satisfied him....He has never masturbated and I very seldom did...If I did this was by hand..You see until four years ago January I never had nor knew what a vibrator was....Probably a good thing...I am now as alive as any woman would want to be and my husband is sexually alive...But then he does not write on this forum with dysfunctional erectile problems...During our vacation two years ago we had sex three times a day for two days and two times a day for two days...This was at the hotel...Maybe missed one day in traveling...We are not trying to set a record, but just plain doing what comes naturally.....

I wonder how long it will take a man to find out that by wanking all the time in front of Porn that he is ruining himself for years ahead?...Sure they are OK now, but wait for the future when they both battle older age, muscles that are shot and a mind that constantly wanders to a hot babe on a Porn screen?....It is sad that a study has never been done on this before...But then years ago all of us younger people made love....There was no Internet Porn and it was not talked about...

healthy_mind

replied on May 12th, 2009

New User

ans to caroline

From what i learned from my dad and uncles. There are pro and cons about practicing masturbation, ok i will start with the bad thing... most guy hardly ejaculated when they masturbate is not because of the shrink of muscle but from what i see is because they either get pressure from work or losing the sexual desire as part of marriage, partly affected by women whom lost their sexual drive after menopause periode that changed their hormone system. Psychologically it's also about how the men view their relationship in marriage... some husbands will definitely checking out young girls because they still have great fit body and less conservative than their wife who feels insecure with their body changing, than these husbands will masturbate while watching porn. (that is why fashion exist! trust me... when you try different styles you will feel more confident and give a new breeze for the dearest hubby)

The good news is that instead of cheating on you , isn't it better that they trying to survive by porn? look from different way.... when they learn something new from the net, they will of course perform it with you and you'll just sit down and enjoy it alll the way hahaha. Also man who masturbates regularly can avoid Prostate Cancer by exercising their genital reproduction system from getting rusty! ( e.g why most of the old gay man still sexually so active without needing any viagra? )

Hence afterall. it's really individual choices and we can't stop anyone from doing what they feel like doing but just take credit out of it. Optimistic is the best masturbation for the mind! =)

Jazzy77

replied on May 12th, 2009

Experienced User

i respect the opinions voiced here. many of the ideas i agree with, but a few ideas, i depart from. here we go.

i like to masturbate. i see it as a perfectly healthy thing to do under certain controlled circumstances.

i have no problem with my b/f masturbating and also include mutual masturbation in on our sex repertoire...we both enjoy watching eachother please ourselves.

i don't like porn particularly. it seems pretty stupid to me and yet, i'm not jealous of other women's bodies, or some other thing like that. i just don't have any use for fake-o porn that serves no real purpose.

honestly, i don't see masturbation as an unhealthy thing. in moderation, i am not aware of any consequences of it, and in many ways i think it can be of help to the person.

from a repressed woman's standpoint, masturbation can help her to learn respect for her body, and what actions get her off. it can help immensely in the bedroom.

from a man's standpoint, i think it's just a natural occurance that a man will masturbate.

even with a healthy sex life, it's just my opinion, but a bit of masturbation here and there just makes things better, and when someone has no sex life (ie no boyfriend/girlfriend), masturbation allows the person to maintain their sanity without becoming an agressive horn-dog.

sorry if i disagree with many here...but this is my opinion and i do respect your opinions.

jasmine

JavaMissus

replied on May 12th, 2009

Moderator

Re: ans to caroline

healthy_mind wrote:

From what I have seen and heard, most men do ejaculate when they masturbate...Even if they don't they are becoming their own best lover...This also can be true of the woman...It is a mind game that can be very hard to change...Whether your Dad or uncles or cousin does it is not important...It is how you can handle what you do and what you expect life to have in store for you....Believe me, I do know something of life...

As far as stresses from work, why would masturbating feel that much better?...You still have to face life...A solo act of jacking off is going to make the world go round better?...Hey, I am not against doing what you want to do as long as you know what the possible and probably end result could be...You men ruin you...If I am married to you, you also could ruin me...That is the reason that some women change partners and cheat...That is the reason why the sexually hot stud of around 45 on up is such a premium...He has kept his trophy in good shape...

As far as women losing their sexual hunger after menopause, read again...These are our finer years...I have never been as sexually alive as I am today...Could have it three times a day if he wanted it...What a woman has does not wear out...If she uses it and becomes sexually awaken, she does not die...She hungers for what she now knows...Yet, saying this if her lover dies, part of her might die...This hunger is only for her beloved....So forget the menopause crap...

If a stupid jerk sits and checks out young female bodies instead of his wife of many years, then he deserves to go dead...As for me, I know every style of sexual relations there is (within reason)...I use my mind...I am the leader of the pack...He is my partner in sin...And no, we do not watch Porn...I am his Porn...Fashion exists at home....And no, I do not trust you as we have different opinions in life....When you are a 10 as a woman, you have no doubts of how good you are, nor lack in confidence...In simple words "you are as good as it gets"...

As far as the cheating thing, in our marriage this could not exist...As far as the Prostrate deal, my husband has been checked for this every year...At one time the Urologist informed him, that the man that has sex faces less chances of having this disease....Believe me, I do my share...We have sex two to three times a week...

I do not talk my talk in life to tell man not to masturbate...If he wants to, then do it...However, in the last four years since I found the Internet, I have been shocked at what I am seeing as far as a man and his sexual dysfunction along these lines...Only by talking to a couple of experts, was I made to understand that this is a big part of the perils of the male and his sexuality....As for me...I have spoken my words and will go back to the "women's section" of the forum.....

mu5ab8ai

replied on May 12th, 2009

New User

Over Masturbation consequences and remedies

Thanks 4 da info bro.....masturbation has destroyed my life 4 sure...i hv da same symtoms uv stated...cud u plz tell me what u mean by hust & is der n e thing els i can eat.

Thnks

hamit

replied on May 14th, 2009

New User

could somebody reply to this

i am a sports player and i am suffering but how long will it take for the full effects of masturbation to go away. I am 16 now

mu5ab8ai

replied on May 15th, 2009

New User

Over Masturbation consequences and remedies

how long hv u been masturbating?

hamit

replied on May 16th, 2009

New User

over masturbation consequences and remedies

about 5 years since i was 11 years old

Kenneth07

replied on June 30th, 2009

New User

practical tips that can help you overcome the habit of masturbat

Here are some practical tips that can help you overcome the habit of masturbation.

When do you masturbate?

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Identify the times of the day when you spend maximum time masturbating. If you tend to do it mostly at night, some exercise before going to bed will help as it will tire you out and you will have less energy to masturbate. Try some sit ups or an after-dinner walk
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Go to bed in pajamas or other night-suits that do not let you touch yourself easily. A difficult to untie knot will give you more time to control your urge
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If you mostly do it in the morning, make it a point to jump out of bed as soon as you are awake. Open your bedroom doors and windows so that even if you do get into bed again, you do not have complete privacy
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If you find yourself masturbating during the daytime, you need to think how you can keep yourself busier so that you do not find the time to do it. Find activities that will keep you surrounded with people
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Distract yourself immediately when you have an urge to masturbate â�� go for something else that you find enjoyable. Pick up that new sports magazine, rush to the kitchen for a quick snack, tune into your favorite TV channel

Why do you masturbate too much?

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Many a times the desire to masturbate is an outcome of loneliness, boredom, or frustration.
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Ask yourself if you are masturbating too much to escape these feelings. Are you looking at masturbation as a solution to your loneliness or boredom?
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If you feel it may be a possible reason, focus on overcoming these feelings, rather than focusing on suppressing masturbation

Information courtesy:healthcaremagic{ dot }com.Here you can have live chat with a doctor for all your medical problems

Dos and Donâ��ts

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Strictly stop looking at pornography. Find out about softwares that can block pornographic sites on your computer. Having to put a password every time you want to view the site will discourage you from doing it. Put all your pornographic magazines out of your reach
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Exercise daily. If you already exercise daily, increase your physical activity. It will reduce your stress and anxiety level, which may be an underlying cause of your habit

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Go to the bathroom often to keep your bladder empty. A full bladder can at times cause sexual stimulation. Some people have experienced that going to the bathroom makes it easier for them to resist the desire to masturbate

You can stop it

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Tell yourself again and again that you can stop it. Masturbating too much is not a disease. If you are determined to overcome it, you will
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Look at it as a test of your will power. Remind yourself that you are a strong individual who can resist temptations
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Put a note on your wall saying something like â��I am my own masterâ��. It will help boost your self-image as a more confident person and someone in absolute control

art12rai

replied on September 17th, 2009

New User

i am also addicted with masturbation, i am not shy to admit and announce that it is really the best thing in the world!

i do this act ever since i was a child, as early as 5 or 6 years old. I am 22 years old now and i still do it frequently../ on the avearge, 3 times a day!

art12rai

replied on September 17th, 2009

New User

the negative consequences that i think has something to do with my masturbation habit is the lack of concentration and loss of memory. in wikipedia.com, i read an article saying that this act drains the acethylcoline in the brain which consequently affects the concentration and memory.

my girlfriend worries for me and she demand me refrain from doing this. despite of innumerable times of promises, i admit i can't adhere to such promises... i am really addicted to this stuff, i enjoyed it very much.

W0LF

replied on September 18th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

I'm sorry. I've never seen a credible study on masturbation that indicates that it has significant impact on brain chemistry other than the dopamine release caused by orgasm. It does burn a significant amount of calories but not enough that you should be experiencing fatigue symptoms.

h2o

replied on October 1st, 2009

New User

Masturbation dont harm you, all the persons who are telling about their problems due to excessive masturbation are lying. Masturbation dont cause Hair loss like some one had in forum
http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic49377. html
it dont cause Loss of weight and acute digestive problems like some one told in forum
http://ehealthforum.com/health/problem-rel ated-to-masturbation-t203046.html
lack of concentration and loss of memory. drains the acethylcoline in the brain which consequently affects the concentration and memory. the wikipedia.com encylopedia is also not True?
How much to Quote there are thousands like these.
Clinical evidences has more weight than people personal experiences. Why not these people considerd during Clinical evidences workshops.
If some facing problems due to excessive masturbation , he was Strongly advised to keep on masturbating as it is perfectly normal in the light of some "clincal scientific evidences" Why not he is told to stop masturbating for a while and notice about the Bad symptoms, if they are not persist then means BAD EFFECTS was due to EXCESS MASTURb.
If some thing effects brain, like Wikipedia said, will effects whole body as brain controls the whole body, eventually brain function disturbance will Effects the whole system .We cant keep on saying blind foldedly that Masturbation is perfectly normal, how can you ignore Many people who claiming of bad effects on their health.
Be wise bros and make your own Choose.
Mine one is AVOID This killer habits, that kill your Hopes, Ambitions and Joys & Pleasures. Like once it did to me.
And those believe in God : ALLAH , YAHWEH , CHRIST. All Relgions and their teaching has forbidden this MASTURBAtion. Do follow coz God punishment dont know any Clinical evidences.
Dont not Destroy your whole life for few minutes PLEASURES

BE HEALTH, STAY HEALTHY , LIVE HEALTHY AND SPEAK HEALTHY.

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