My mother has developed what seems like very sensitive ears lately. I mean she has been using the same pillow for years. It is an orthopaedic pillow for her neck coz she has arthritis and she has never complained about it. But lately, she cannot stand the pain on her outer ears when she sleeps on this pillow. It seems the pressure is hurting her ears and they becomed red and swollen. She changed her pillow to a very soft one but the same happened. What is strange is that sometimes she does not feel this pain at all for several days and she always sleeps on her side. But then the pain comes back on both ears. Anyone had this and is there a solution?
I too have this ear pain and have not found an explanation. It is only my outer ear. I read on one website (sorry, don't remember which) that some believe it is related to circulation. I am wondering if this may be a good explanation. I am five months pregnant and my ears have been worse since becoming pregnant. I often sleep on my right side, which doctors recommend not to when pregnant because of circulation. Though I try not too, I often wake up on my right side with my ear throbbing. I thank anyone who might have ideas or recommendations. I've tried switching pillows and I'm about to cut a foam circle to place around my ear to hopefully relieve the pressure. Good luck!
I've had the same problem for 20 years or so. Comes and goes, as well as makes it hard to use most earphones or headphones. I get some relief from using a memory foam pillow for side sleepers. The cost is about $40. SmilingAuthor: thanks for the accupuncture suggestion. That's the one thing I haven't tried!
Thank goodness! I was beginning to wonder if I was dreaming about the terrible throbbing in whichever ear I am lying on, that wakes me up in the night. Although I have suffered with this for some years on and off, since becoming pregnant it occurs every night. I also have similar throbbing in my hips and wondered if anyone else has? I have heard of related back pain which have sometimes suffered as well. Has anyone had any success getting advice from a doctor? I am convinced they think I am making it up. If only I could visit in the middle of the night when the pain is so bad!
I've talked with a few gp's over the years, saw an ENT about it, two dentists, an orthodontist and two TMJ specialists. All I ever get is "Hmmm...I don't know what that is." I keep hoping a physician will be poking around in one of these forums and take an interest in finding out.
I have had the same problem for years. Now that I am pregnant it wakes me up several times a night and I have to change sides that I lay my head on, only for the pain to switch back to that side. I think sleeping on my back may help, but I am pregnant. I have also switched pillows to try to keep my head higher, to no avail.
I have Raynauds Syndrome, so the circulation as a cause, is surely an option for me. This ear condition has become way worse now that I am pregnant, I am at 6 months now. I will chat with my Dr. but imagine it will be much of the same... Hmm...
I am a huge proponent of acupuncture, so that will be my first venture.
I have had this problem for about 5 years now....AND I THINK I FIGURED OUT THE ISSUE!!!! (At least my issue). I would love to help others because I have been sleep deprived for this long now!!
It is my hair, my hair is compressing my ear down, therefore it is not gettng enough circulation. Now that I FINALLY figured it out, when I wake up with the pain, I put my hand up by the top part of my ear and I can feel the strands of hair pulled very tight across my ear! I sure hope this helps, I am sleeping better now. I have also tried bobby pins and pony tails now that I know the problem, but sometime they do not hold my hair back like I would like. Again good luck, I hope this is your solution too!!!!!!
I too have the same issue. It is so tender that touching it almost has me want to cry. I cant find the answer to why.
* But what I have found to stop it fast is to slowly tug on the ear ever-so gently & hold it a few seconds. After a few seconds try a different direction till all pain is gone.
I am suspecting. seeing this helps. somehow the cartilage is dislocating itself. When it is allowed to "pop back into place" then the pinching of some nerve is stopped (blood supply returned?) & the pain goes away in 1-2 min or less. (seconds most of the time)
I have also read about the back/tail bone pain association. I have chronic pain in the lower back/tail bone, but meds take care of it.
About acupuncture. They have many times placed needles in the outer ear to help pain elsewhere! (does not hurt. VERY TINY needles!) They claim different spots are associated w/ different body parts. (same w/ feet & hands etc) (weird?)
So there may be a connection. They have placed needles there for my back pain issue!
But that would not explain why tugging on the ear for a few seconds makes it better? (unless like acupressure?)
*I have my money on movement of the cartilage. Almost like a small dislocation. How to "fix" forever???
I am frustrated at doctors not listening or don't seem to care. (seems common w/ allot today!) IT HURTS!
I have tried many different pillows & that does not seem to be the answer. I think I maybe lay hard on it & move around dislocating it.
I am not sure, but the tugging works to stop the current pain.
For years now, I have had outer ear pain while sleeping. I find that if I position my pillow with a depression where my ear will lie, this helps.
I have also noticed that relative to my family members, my ear cartilage is very stiff. My husband and kids can all bend their floppy cartilage so that the top of their ear and their lobe meet, and they can do so without any pain at all. They can bend their ears forward from the middle so that they practically cover the ear canal--still no pain. I cannot do either of these things. I suspect that my stiff ear cartilage is the cause of the ear pain when I sleep. The pressure on the ear between my head and the pillow causes the pain as the cartilage is pushed out of place. If I had floppy ears, they might not notice the pressure.
I also cannot wear earmuffs or ear buds. They make my ears ache terribly. Again, I think this is because the earmuffs and ear buds push my cartilage out of its preferred position. Thankfully, my glasses don't seem to cause ear pain.
Do any of you also have stiff ear cartilage? I assume having stiff cartilage is just bad luck and there is probably not much that can be done about it.
I have had this condition for over 20 years. I have considered it my thorn in the flesh. Doctors have been of no help. They have only found that it is a circulatory issue in the cartilage itself. They have found no physical malnormity and a sleep study showed nothing.
The only relief that I have had is by using earplugs and use a feather pillow. I also have a chunk of my hair that I put behind my ear as I sleep. All of this helps me to be a sane person during the day; otherwise with no sleep, i am horrible to live with!
I hope that this helps someone else to cope with this.
I too suffered for years with this problem ,till I found that masaging and pulling the cartilage in different directions till I hear a popping sound ,makes the pain disappear ,also try to avoid pressure on the ear by making a hollow in the pillow where the ear rests ,or make a circle of foam or soft material with a hole in the middle to fit around the ear so there wont be pressure .
Hope this helps !
I have had the problem for approximately 20 years. It developed when I needed to be on the phone much of my work day. It was the older style office phone and my employer would not purchase a phone headset. I rarely use a phone today, as it is still bothersome when I do. It feels much like a bruised body area, but it definitely is not bruised. I think it is nerve or cartilage damage. I am a side sleeper and have to avoid the side that has the pain. Even slight pressure makes it much more unbearable. I like the idea of acupuncture. I would not have thought of that. I no longer mention it to my doctor because s/he looks at me like I am crazy; when in fact it makes me miserable.
I, too have had pain in both my outer ears for close to 20 years. No doctor has yet to explain why or even WANT to find out. I have to keep massaging my ear for the pain to subside. I hear a lot of crackling noise as I'm doing it. Reading the other posts I find it very interesting about the spine/ear connection. My back/spine/spinal cord is so messed up from surgeries, testing dyes, and radiation. About the time I was diagnosed with having Arachnoiditis in my lower back was probably around when I was experiencing the ear pain (17 years ago). I still wake up at night with severe pain. Speaking of acupuncture, I had it done to my lower back several years ago and for the first time ever since my diagnosis I was completely pain free! The only down side is when I stopped having it done, the pain returned so it was like a temporary fix unless you have it done, maybe, for the rest of your life. I've been wanting to experiment with trying different pillows but I haven't yet but I will now thanks to all of your suggestions.
I, too, have suffered with stiff ears for over 25 years. According to Drs., it is caused by the gradual hardening of the cartilage of the ears and they offered little help and certainly no treatment or cure. I am a side sleeper plus have to wear a CPAP mask. The only effective sleep solution I have found is to use a Tempur-Pedic U-Shaped Travel Pillow that i found at Relax the Back. I use this in conjunction with a very thin regular pillow. The oly drawback is that these pillows are about $80. I have trie other foam neck pillows but none seem to work as well as this particular pillow. Hope this helps some of you and at least the condition is not life threatening.
I am a Certified Reflexologist, Diet Technician, Certified Nutritionist and currently practice Reflexology at a Wellness Center here in the Midwest. Recently, a client came to me with this issue about the outer ear cartilage being very sensitive and hurting so much it would wake her. She has tried cutting her pillow, sleeping only with a neck pillow and a few other remedies but none have worked. She asked me for help so today I have been researching this issue. What my conclusions are: it is related to some pressure from the spine where all nerves begin. So it makes sense that helping your spine, nerves would offer relief. Some have mentioned vitamin deficiency which also makes sense as Vitamin D, all the B vitamins (more B6 and B12 but take all) help with nerves. Please check out this web site for info about the low back pain and outer ear which also makes sense when you look at your body and understand that in Reflexology of the ear the spine and head are reflected in the outer portion of the ear cartilage. http://www.coccyx.org/personal/2002/jon.ht
m I have had this problem a long time ago but it never reached critical. In looking at these post and going through my past, I think it is because I was injured in a car accident and see a chiropractor about once a month to keep my back in good condition. So my thoughts would be: 1) find a good chiropractor, acupuncturist, or reflexologist to work the areas that will support relief of your ear pain. 2) Have labs to see if you are deficient in any vitamins or minerals. 3) Keep researching and learning as this is not in your head (well it is on your head but you know)no matter what anyone tells you. Good Health wishes to you all.
I woke up in the middle of the night (today) with extreme ear pain (external) I checked for bug bites, nothing there no redness eigther. Have been having upper arm and forarm pain dont now if its related or not. My ear was hurting !!! felt better in the morning but took around 20 minutes for pain to finally stop- when i woke up I was sleeping on that side, i have no idea whats going on.
I have had the same problem off and on in only one ear for a few years. It is now worse and I meantioned it to my Gp, who had heard of it and said it is a mystery, but some people are helped by using a steroid cream, which he was prescribing for me for another complaint. I rather pooh-poohed this idea as it seemed more a problem in the cartilage not the skin. However, on investigating the section of ear minutely, I found one tiny place where there was extreme pain on pressing (also found when using the internal ear-phones). I have been picking at the place for a few days and using antiseptic cream in order to expose any black head or spot, and using hot water compresses. Some liquid may have come out. I'm now going to use the steroid cream sparingly to try to heal it. I know there is a risk of infection in doing this, but as it is only a 2mm area maximum that is causing so much pain, I think it is worth the risk.