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Q: out on control
asked by: dollymixturegirl on December 17th, 2008
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For the past 3 or 4 years of my life now i feel i have struggled with sad feelings, im not sure if i can call myself depresed without having a diagnosis first. My life has been full of ups and downs with school and home. My parents have had to take in my sisters children because of neglect, they turned my world upside down.
Both my brothers have moved away and i dont get to speak to them alot so its just basically me on my own with my niece and nephew and they are evil.
I became depressed last year and was sent for councilling at school, which didnt really helpat all. I told my councillor my problems with self harm and she did nothing. I stopped going to her after a few weeks as i felt nothing was being done but now im starting to feel even worse than before and my need to cut is increasing. It feels like a big ball of painful energy in my body and it needs to be brought out. I know its a bad way of copingwith things, it leaves horrible scars and could get mento serious trouble but i cant stop. Nothing seems to be going right in my life, somtimes if i argue with myself not to cut it just makes me suicidal and i just think of killing myself........ i cant stand this anymore, i want to changeand i want to feel whole..................... i want to be happy
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Fairy Godmother
replied on December 17th, 2008
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Jade, where have you been and why have you not written me? I thought we were friends and had agreed you could write to me ANYTIME you felt depressed? After all, I kinda know your history...........maybe Fairy Godmother is too old? I do know your parents need to find you some professional help. This is getting to be out of control for you.....................
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dollymixturegirl
replied on December 17th, 2008
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Im sorry i just felt bad for piling all of my problems onto you, we are friends and i love you so much that is why i dont want to pile everything onto you. you have your own worries without having to worry about me..... im so sorry, i didnt mean to upset you. Your not to old i promise..... im sorry :'( XxX
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Fairy Godmother
replied on December 17th, 2008
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Its me.......
I love you too sweet girl..........I am not mad at you nor could I ever be mad. I do get disappointed just like any MOM would do when you tell me you've allowed yourself to hurt yourself again. You know you can come to me and tell me anything. We've been friends now a long time. I was worried your parents had not allowed you to use computer, I had not heard from you. Where is Jewell? Please write me and tell me whats going on. I'll try very hard to write soemthing that will make you feel better............in the mean time.........you are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are grey........you'll never know dear, how much I love you.......please don't take my sunshine away......ALWAYS here fro you babygirl! L
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dollymixturegirl
replied on December 17th, 2008
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Ilove you too, im sorry for dissapointing you=[. My parents havnt been speaking to me whatsoever so they dont even notice how upset i am. Jewel, we broke up, he asked another girl out..... soo im not speaking to him right now, i trusted him and thought i had some special feeling for him and he said he loved me and i was the most special girl in the world and i was beautiful and i was stupid enough to believe him. im sorry for not writing, there have been many nights since the last email you sent me where i have been wanting to email you but i feel so selfish for always putting my problems on you, it makes me feel awful. I love that sunshine song. I dont know whats going on in my head anymore :'.'.'. (
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Fairy Godmother
replied on December 17th, 2008
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You are special
Jade, I do not want you to ever think you are being selfish........I have no problems. I am doing great.........I just want you to be happy and its so hard because of the BS you have to put up with. Its Jewell's loss........he will regret it one day. But you are special to me......... Joe Cocker has a song...YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL TO ME..........................
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dollymixturegirl
replied on December 17th, 2008
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Ok then, i havnt heard that song.... im sorry & i loveyou
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