Have you tried the ultra-thin condoms? Don't use spermicide, it doesn't work!

Why doesn't he want you to use birth control pills? Does he have an HIV? That would be my first suspicion...

there must be a reason he doesn't want you on them because they are a good method of contraception 98-99% affective i would ask him these questions Jenny

offical thank you for your suggestion

Byk and Jenny
he doesn't want me to take pregnancy pills because of all the risks that i would go through if i take it .. it plays with hormones and causes tension all the time plus they make me gain weight ..
it's not the he has any kind of disease thank god, and i know my husband very well and because he loves me so much he doesn't want me to go through all that fuss .. although he enjoys no condom much more than i do, he uses it just so i wont take pregnant pills ..
and i know that what i said about pregnancy pills might differ medically, i mean the effects of it and if it is perfectly healthy or not .. but we are convinced ..!!


thanks everyone for replying .. any more suggestion like offical's i would love to know about

my pills dont cause tension...and i haven't gained any weight either, though the pills do effect people in different ways, i've been on yaz for over a year and havent had any problems, my boyfriend and i have unprotected sex all the time...condoms irritated me but we put up with them for a long time just bc i do not believe in the pull out method and didn't want to take that risk..as for orgasming, do you two foreplay before jumping into sex? I ask this because for many women vaginal orgasms are much harder to achieve, so with or without the condom I dont think its gonna make much of a difference, clitoral orgasms are what majority of women experience...

A lot of it has to do with oral sex as well, honestly out of the times that I have had sex, I'd say maybe only one out of 10 times I can give a girl an orgasm with vaginal penetration. Oral sex, almost every time. It's just how you are stimulated that makes for the orgasm!