SO...I've heard that only about 30% of women have the ability to orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. I'm 25 and when I was younger I could have them even when the sex was bad. Now I can't have them at all, I haven't in a few years and the men have done everything they can.
I guess I'm wondering if you can lose the ability once you have had it? And why would I lose it so young? I've never had a child or anything like that.
Woman can lose everything sexually. Orgasm requires comfort with your body and immense arousal. It's not trivial to manage that. However if you're maintaining your sense of sexuality there's no normal reason you should be struggling with the orgasms you had when you were younger. The good news is that anything lost can be found again. Focus on the things that stimulate you sexually