Having a Hysterectomy does not change your wife sexually....She possibly will get a lot more erotic and want sex more....As far as your getting worked up, tell her to turn you on....Give you some hot oral sex...Talk sexy in your ear....Go back to yesterday...Find the hot woman that she used to be and go to that special place that you both know....Once you have found it again you will not forget it.....This is the secret to hot sex....

Take care,
Caroline