hi greenr...

your lady may love this! remember however that all women are different, so what may work for your lady may not work for someone else.

in all honesty, if it was me, it would piss me off immensely...because i want to cum when it starts feeling that good.

please understand i'm not trying to say that this is the case with your lady. she may very well love it like that! however if you ever get with me, and try it, you won't be able to do it a 2nd time! hahahahaha.
jasmine

I am fully aware that no 2 women are the same. Like i mentioned, i don't do that every time.

So the answer to the question, is that your all about the multiple orgasims.


and thank you, i'll remember that- i wouldn't want to piss you off during Sexy Time.

i personally have never had multiple orgasms but i do know the whole stopping and starting thing really is amazing and it most definitely contributes to a bigger orgasm.

see greenr...mstrmbe is your greatest fan. this may be an outstanding point. i am multi-orgasmic. my reason for disliking being pushed to the "edge" is that if i "lose" the feeling, then i play hell getting it back. it literally makes me mad if i'm close but don't get to have the "o". as a follow on to the statement, i am multi-orgasmic...so there's no need for me to have a build up to one big event. i can have an "o", then have another, and another.

this isn't any better than mstrombe's situation, it's just different. maybe the answer to your question lies in this difference. if your g/f is multi-orgasmic, maybe she thinks like i do. if she isn't maybe she hinks like mstrombe.

being that all women are SO different, it's also possible that it's just impossible to characterize any given woman's sexual response to any certain stimulus.

it's a great question though and i'd like to see what other ppls feelings are on the subject. good question greenr.
jasmine

jasmine...very sexy name...and you are making very valid points.

I am not the type of fella that'll categorize all women of being the same in any aspect of womanhood. much like, all guys aren't the same.

she isn't my girlfriend...just a girly friend.

she is multi orgasmic- but the immense orgasim that she has from my "teasing" method- whole body shaking...speaking in tongues...foaming at the mouth...biting- pulling my hair-DIGGING her nails in my back,butt,anything she can get them claws on, loudest screams i've ever heard ((maybe i embellished a lil) but you get the point)

and I too understand the lost of feeling- damn near impossible to get it back. as a guy- i get frustrated too. Receiving oral isn't up on my list- yeah it's sexy to watch a lady make it dissapear...but i've never came from oral sex. i've been close a lot of times, and if she quits b4 i get there...i get not so interested in the sex at all. personally, i'll spend as much time that she will let me-b4 she pulls me up- or as long as it takes to get her to have that O with me giving it to her orally.

ladies...thank you for your input

That is almost like leaving someone hanging, I would say change the pace, its nice to have a few good ones or even just one but if its the same all the time it becomes boring.

haha..wow whatta tease!:] hah. umm, if i were you i would stop the getting her real close to coming 5 times because...well, that would piss me off. mmm, you should try "fourplay" and then sex at a couple different paces but don't let her get that close to getting off and then just stop. that is very frustrating. LOL. good luck[:

Let me clarify (this is something most women don't even know). A multiple orgasm is not indicative of the number of orgasm a woman has but of the erogenous zones that are stimulated during sex. There are 3 (the clitoris, the G-Spot and the back wall of the Vagina) What you are doing for your girl is giving her multiples. The only reason to ever stop is if she is uncomfortable or if she stops reaching orgasm this way (usually due to over stimulation).
A woman can have many multiples which is really fun or orgasms that involve only one or two of the erogenous zones which are nice too.
What I say to you is if she loves it and wants to keep playing then you are doing her a great favor..but if she's ready to cum, let her.
If she's not complaining and if it's not broke definitely don't fix it.
A woman is blessed if she has a guy who knows what he's doing and takes the time to help her reach multiples...it takes practice but it is so worth it!!!

i kinda like the whole tease thing, my boyfriend has done it before, and yea sometimes it drives you nuts but in a good way, and usually in the end it pays to wait for that big O

I think this is so sexy and erotic. I am 23 and married. My husband is 32. I used to do the same to my husband, i love to give him handjobs and stops each time he reachs the edge and wants to cum. when i do this i can see some drops of his transparent sperms comming out of him. Then i wait for a moment then continue what i was doing. I can do this may be for an hour then i let him cum with a big orgasm. When i am in period, it is my biggest chance to do this (handjobs) to him even more than twice a day, and some time i do not let him cum for days but only keep him on the edge. Also when we have intercourse he does the same to me and i find it a very sexy thing.

Any one wants to comment about that ?? please tell me.

Best wishes Cindy! keep it up!

I guess I'm confused, why would your girly friend want to have to choose between a big orgasm or multiple orgasms? Shouldn't she be having both?