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hi guys and girls

I am new here and have couple of questions for the ladies.

Do girls liking sucking on penises? Because all the girls i have been with never really expressed excitement about it. And sometimes when I cum down their throats they seem to get mad? What's up with that?
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replied August 6th, 2008
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You should always make sure your partner actually wants you to ejaculate in her mouth as some women don't like it.

Personally I don't mind performing oral sex because I like giving my partner pleasure, but it does make my jaw hurt after a while. I can see why many women don't enjoy it.
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replied August 6th, 2008
why wouldnt girl want the guy cum in her mouth? isnt that what we are suppose to do ?
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replied August 6th, 2008
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Some women don't like it for whatever reason, you should talk to you girlfriend beforehand to make sure she's ok with it.

A little warning its going to happen would probably be nice too. Gag reflexes just don't go away when giving oral sex! Smile
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replied August 6th, 2008
wow never knew girls wouldnt like the guy finishing in their mouth. what would be the reasons that they wudnt like it?
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replied August 6th, 2008
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The guy not telling the girl so he "cums down her throat." Wink-- that would make me a little angry.

There are a lot of reasons, you'd have to ask your girlfriend if there's something she doesn't like about it.
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replied August 6th, 2008
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You need to have a discussion with the person you are engaging in this act with. That way, you both understand what you will and will not do. When you engage in oral sex, is it with people you are in a relationship wth or just random people?

There is no blanket "must do's" during sex. Why do you feel women are supposed to do this?
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replied August 6th, 2008
i dont have a girlfriends its just my exs and just hook ups. and thats just oral sex is? why would you suck it if you dont want to swallow? what else can you do wit it? its either mouth or face
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replied August 6th, 2008
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Do you reciprocate this process? Meaning are you pleasuring them after you've gotten yours?
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replied August 6th, 2008
um someitmes if i feel like it
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replied August 6th, 2008
They could spit? Maybe they don't like the gag reflex and would rather position your penis at the front of their mouths? Maybe they don't like the taste but want to make you feel good?

I had a Girlfriend who loved giving blow jobs. She love the feel of it in her mouth. She loved my reaction to the feelings. She just loved the whole thing except, when I was ~almost~ there would stop sucking and use her hand really fast because she really didn't like the taste and texture of semen.

The reason doesn't matter. When you're Orgasm is coming, let her know and she can do what she wants with it.
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replied August 6th, 2008
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Remember the golden rule: do unto others. Surely you cannot expect your partners to be happy to pleasure you when you are less than thrilled to return the favor.
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replied August 6th, 2008
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confused_many wrote:
um someitmes if i feel like it


Rolling Eyes wow...how nice of you

and no..not all girls like a guy to completely go in their mouth..some dont like the taste and some have over reactive gag reflexes...usually if thats the case the girl can mix a hand job with the bj and when she feels he is close...i can usually tell when my bf is.....she can just finish him off with her hand..or the guy can finish himself...whichever
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replied August 8th, 2008
o okay thanx

so the only reason the girl wouldnt want me to nut in her mouth is cause of the taste?
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replied August 8th, 2008
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No.. please don't be gross about it.

Why don't you constantly want to give your girlfriend oral sex-- does taste have anything to do with your reluctance?
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replied August 8th, 2008
i dont have a girlfriend again...

and i do give oral but when they ask for it usually we are like behind a house so they only have time to give me head
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replied August 8th, 2008
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lol sorry. I keep writing girlfriend without thinking.
There are lots of reasons a girl may not like it, that's why you need to ask- they could even be annoyed that you just assumed it was ok. Who knows?
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replied August 9th, 2008
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confused_many wrote:
i dont have a girlfriend again...

and i do give oral but when they ask for it usually we are like behind a house so they only have time to give me head
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replied August 12th, 2008
Personally I don't mind when a guy goes in my mouth, as long as he warns me when he's going to cum. I have a lot of friends who don't like the taste or feel, have bad gag reflexes, or just don't like the thought of semen in their stomach and that's why they won't swallow or let a guy go in their mouth. Which is totally fine, every girl is different when it comes to these kinda things. You just have to ask and see what she wants to do.
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replied August 12th, 2008
Hi
Till now all my girlfriends start sucking my penis and then only start sex with me and ask for my cum holding my penis, i think girls really enjoy our penis in their mouth and i also like to do the same. Not even a single girl has said no for it.
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